Do you believe God is more apt to answer your prayer if you kneel or does it mat

@suspenseful (40193)
Canada
January 8, 2008 5:48pm CST
I have been told that we have to get on our knees and pray to God, but sometimes I am so tired, I get into bed first. When we go to church, we bow our heads but we still sit on the pews. Now some people notice a difference, they feel more reverence if they kneel down but I wonder whether it is the attitude or whether they expect that God will answer their prayers if they show their humility by kneeling, whereas to me, bowing my head is just as humble. And when you do kneel to pray, you are usually wearing your pajamas and nightgown, whereas some of us sleep in the altogether and we would not kneel to pray unless we were still wearing our day clothes, thus getting into bed as soon as possible. Now do you think that God is more apt to answer your prayer if you kneel or is simply bowing your head enough?
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@TravisE (440)
• United States
8 Jan 08
I think your internal attitude is the key factor. God listens when you are sincere, and whatever posture you can take that gets you into a good attitude space of humility and sincerity is best. IMHO. ;-)
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@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
9 Jan 08
That is what I think. Thank you.
@tigertang (1749)
• Singapore
20 Apr 08
I think it's always best to ask if you are praying in your heart or with your mouth and knees. You can kneel down and even crawl when you pray but if you are merely going through the motions, it really does not matter. People who are really praying will be talking to the Almighty from within no matter what the position of their body.
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@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
21 Apr 08
That sounds like a good idea. I do not like kneeling, not because I do not like being reverent, but I want to go to sleep, and that sort of wakes me up. Besides I pray better in bed and I feel that God hears me better that way.
@Rozie37 (15499)
• Turkmenistan
9 Jan 08
Because of injuries, I have not been able to kneel down and pray for many years. I use to also lay prostrate on the floor, but now I do it on my bad. I believe that if you can, you should, out of respect to God. However, I do not know that he will not answer our prayers if we are not in these positions. I believe that it is more important that we pray, than the poisition we are in when we do. The word of God says to pray without ceasing. I am the type of person that I do not like to put praying off for later. I like to pray right where I am at the time. I may forget later on. I will be walking down the street, in the shower, or typing on Mylot. Where ever I feel the need to stop and pray, that is what I do.
@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
9 Jan 08
I pray during the day after the morning prayer, not counting graces. I find that when I pray at night, I doze off, then I continue praying. I have even prayed in my dreams. Sometimes I will stop what I am doing, or I will keep on doing what I am and think about God or ask HIM for HIS help.
@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
15 Jan 08
We do not need to show our piety by kneeling. I can make longer prayers in bed, rather than on my knees, and more effective prayers. I doubt that God wants us to reach HIM by our much speaking and how long we can sit through the pain if we have something wrong with them and HE is not interested in us SHOWING how much we can endure. Christ suffered on the cross to remove the curse of our sins. It was not so that we should now suffer if we have arthritis in our knees or something like that. We can bow and pray, we can kneel in bed, we can show by our humbleness. I do not believe we should look up into the sky or face forward, as that is not showing reverence.
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@aries_0325 (3060)
• Philippines
20 Jan 08
I believe that God can always answer all my prayer and if you believe Him, you have an answer to all of your prayer. And I know that all people who have faith to Him are very lucky because they are always hear their prayer.
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@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
29 May 08
It is just that I have some prayers that it is impossible for man to fix and I wonder if it is the position and what I wear or do not wear. I would hate to think that God did not answer the prayers because I was not kneeling or even wearing pajamas or a night gown at the time. It has just lately started to bother me when some friends were talking about having breakfast in their pajamas and praying, but we do not have small children in the house anymore.
• Philippines
17 Jan 08
Prayer would answered by God is matter of his holy will so remind to yourself that God know the best for everyone asking for his providence don't be fanatic or greedy that make it miraculous take effect always but through sacrifice,perseverence and love makes prayer feel our soul to be on peace and contentment.
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@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
29 May 08
I sometimes wonder why God would think that being infertile or not curing my infertility is best for me. I heard of some people who never got their prayers answered and felt that well "maybe i would have given birth to a serial killer," and it could be that was not the reason. And maybe it was because there was a horrible genetic condition, but having heard of others who had children who were mentally and physically retarded, it that were so, no parent would bear those children, so I never know and I hope it is not because I would have been a bad mother and only a good mother to my adopted sons who are now grown. I do think if one prays long enough, then my prayer will be answered, but it is taking such a long time.
@Jimmy3371 (142)
• United States
20 Jan 08
the Bible does not say we should get down on your knees or not the bible only says in John 14:13-14 And Whatsover ye shall ask in my name that will I do that the father may be glorified in the Son if ye ask any thing in my name I will do it but the bible does tell us though there are two restrictions or qualifications we must pray in Jesus name and we must pursue God's glory. plus God will not hear the pray of a sinner John 9:31 now we know that God heareth not sinners: But if any man be a worshipper of God, and doeth his will him he heareth.and in Psalm Chaper 34 verses 15 and 17 the eyes of the Lord are toward the righteous and his ears are open to their cry.... the righteous cry and the Lord hears.
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@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
29 May 08
I sometimes fail and I do things that I am ashamed of and I am not perfect, so sometimes I feel because of those lack of qualifications that God will not hear me or will not grant the answer that I want. I wonder if that is because God expects a higher qualifications for a Christan than a non Christian. I am not that good of a person naturally.
@JJ4Ever (4693)
• United States
9 Jan 08
Hi, Suspense. This is a great question and discussion. To tell you the truth, God doesn't expect us to kneel or bow our heads when we pray. Those specific things that we do when we pray are simply our postures of prayer. God doesn't require or expect them. However, you're exactly right when you say that you're approaching God with a humble attitude when you bow your head or kneel. It's basically just something to help you realize the awesomeness of God. Kneeling and bowing of the head is just an action. It has nothing to do with what's in your heart and how you pray to God. You will still pray the same. You say you're tired by the end of the day, but you still like to pray before you go to bed. I do this also because I like to close out my day in the right way. I usually get in bed also and pray myself to sleep. It may sound strange, but God still honors my prayers. You can pray while your drive (with eyes open, of course!), while you work, or whatever you're doing and He will still honor your prayers. It doesn't matter what posture you use when you talk to God. Sometimes when I have something weighing very heavy on my mind that I want God to have complete control over, I'll get in my room by myself and kneel at my bed to pray for it just because it's something extremely important and special to me. When I do that, I'm just demonstrating a humble spirit and that I'm worshipping God, not looking at myself. Sometimes kneeling to pray can really help your mindset. It's not require while you pray, but as I sometimes kneel while I pray, it can really help you remember those special times spent with just you and God. Bowing your head when praying shows humility, respect, and sincerety. Closing your eyes when you pray keeps from distraction. They're all wonderful things, but they mean nothing when you're speaking to God. He is more concerned with what you're praying for then how you're praying. I hope that helps! Once again, great discussion. Keep up the great work!
@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
9 Jan 08
Thank you for your answer. I have been told that you have to kneel all the time, but sometimes I am too tired. I think part of the problem has to be that when I was boarding and I was kneeling to pray, the lady I was boarding with always interrupted me (she was in the kitchen and I had to go to bed early because I had to get the bus early to get to work) when I was praying and so I am wary that someone will interrupt me. So even though I look on God with reverence and awe, I still have that anxiety.
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@JJ4Ever (4693)
• United States
2 Jun 08
Thank you both for your comments. I don't believe God expects us to kneel each time we pray, but you're right that He does give us a wonderful example of how to pray in Scripture along with a model prayer. Kneeling is a symbol of our awe and reverence to God when we pray. If we have the same reverence when we pray, for instance lying in bed at night praying, which I do often before falling asleep, I believe God still hears and answers us. Yes, it's a wonderful thing to be able to kneel, but I really feel that all God wants is our respect as we pray; He wants us to know that we're in His presence. We should be humble and in awe, but He understands that we can't always kneel when we pray, for sometimes obvious reasons. It's better to pray lying in bed than to be interrupted while kneeling to pray, in my opinion. I really appreciate both of your input, though! Thanks for posting this wonderful discussion and for your kind comments.
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@marciascott (25529)
• United States
29 May 08
I really don't think it matter how you pray, last night before I went to bed I pray for my daughter, she is always having a hard time. and I prayed for God to help her. she has 9 children and she is always having a hard time with the kids and a place to stay I hope he answrs my prayers. he doesn't always answer right a way but he is always on time.
@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
29 May 08
I pray that God will cure me of my infertility and make me like Sarah and Elizabeth who got pregnant when they were old women. But I am concerned because I was not as good women and they did not get infertile because of their bad efforts. So I feel I have to really work hard at praying because I was a bad girl before I got married.
@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
29 May 08
I suppose at ninety years of age, even at those times when women were still beautiful in their sixties, she would be impatient, but I guess that she forgot that God is not a man who cannot do everything.
• United States
29 May 08
Incase you didn't remember, God promised Sarah a child and she got impatient and gave her servant over to Abraham to have a child. She was not an all-holy woman who was blessed because of her good behavior. People in the Bible are not extraordinary people, they are people that God chose who in some cases listened and in some cases did not. If you look at David it says he was a man after God's own heart - however if you look at his life he broke all 10 commandments. And there were consequences, but he still loved and trusted God though he brought the consequences of his sin upon himself and was deeply troubled.
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@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
9 Jan 08
I f I talk to him I do it if walking standing bow head or not he hears you which ever way ya are dont matter he will answer in his way and it doesnt matter where you are or how you are dressed or if you are knelling or not
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@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
10 Jan 08
yup that how I feel
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@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
15 Jan 08
I do not look straight up. I think no matter where we are we should show proper respect because HE created us.
@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
10 Jan 08
That is what I feel, as long as I am sincere.
@Shaun72 (15959)
• Palatka, Florida
9 Jan 08
Well I can't get on my knees anymore to pray due to my illness but I still know and belive that God hears me. I belive that God hears prayers where ever you are or however you pray to him. With me it is usally before I go to sleep.
@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
9 Jan 08
I believe God hears me as well, when I kneel I tend to speed up a bit.
@blackbriar (9076)
• United States
9 Jan 08
A simple bow of your head with hands folded in front of you in prayer is fine with the Lord above. HE is not THAT particular when it comes to prayer. If he was, then ppl with bad knees and can barely walk or anyone who simply can no longer kneel would never have their prayers answered.
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@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
9 Jan 08
Thank you. I felt that any act of reverence is all right with God, as long as our hearts are sincere.
@ElicBxn (63235)
• United States
9 Jan 08
I think you can pray humbly striding down the street, if you have the right mind set. I'd suppose you could even do it jogging, but since I've never been a jogger I don't know for sure. I think its the sincerity of the prayer and the humility of the heart - not the physical attitude - that matters. I know I've had prayers answered doing all kinds of things that don't involve kneeling, or even bowing my head.
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@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
9 Jan 08
I suppose kneeling to pray is a matter of tradition or legalism as we call it in the Reformed Church. I often pray when I am going for a walk.
@johnrp (69)
• United States
9 Jan 08
I don't think the posture of the person praying would matter to God, but kneeling might help the individual to concentrate more on the prayer and to feel more reverential. It is like saying to oneself, "This is a special part of my day when I am doing something special and assuming a posture I don't normally assume for other things."
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@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
9 Jan 08
When I am praying, I am not concentrating on other things, but if I am kneeling, I am afraid that someone will interrupt me. No one will interrupt me if I am in bed and I have my covers over me nor do they do if they see that I bow my head and am sitting in the chair.
• United States
29 May 08
I do not think that it matters. God is everywhere all the time, he listens to your prayers whether you are standing up, sitting down, laying down, in Pajamas, or in day clothes. God made you naked, why would he care what layer of clothing you put over yourself? It's about your heart and the condition it is in, about the attitude, not the position your body makes when you are praying. There is a verse that says "never cease praying" if you never cease praying, that means you would pray all the time, everywhere, in every situation and every clothing matter.
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@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
29 May 08
That does help me a lot. I just want to give God reverence and I do not want God not to answer my prayers because I do not look right. I do wonder about the pajamas or nightgown thing since God gave clothes for Adam and Eve to cover themselves and Shem and Japeth walked backwards to cover Noah when he was plastered and lying drunk because now grape juice was able to ferment and he drunk some.
@jdyrj777 (6530)
• United States
30 May 08
I dont think the position matters nor what your wearing.
@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
30 May 08
Yesterday I decided to pray kneeling in my underwear - at least I was wearing something — so I will see how that works. I am not exactly testing God, I am just seeing whether since I do sleep in the altogether, whether it will help. And whether I will get over my fear of someone interrupting me.
@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
26 Jun 08
I usually pray in bed under the covers. I stopped wearing a nightgown because it always round up around my neck, I have a rather thick neck and I was always afraid of chocking. I move When I knelt it was when I was wearing a nightgown, and then I decided with all the interruptions, to pray in bed instead, and as time went on, I stopped wearing my nightgown.
@djbtol (5493)
• United States
6 Jun 08
What matters most is the attitude of your heart. Physical posture can help your heart attitude. Just the same, one can kneel, or even lay prostrate, and not have a prayerful heart attitude. God knows our heart. We cannot use religious acts to manipulate him, but he does acknowledge our sincere efforts. Whatever, I hope your prayers are answered in a way that causes you to know and love God better. djbtol
@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
6 Jun 08
The trouble is that even though I am sincere, I do not have the emotions that one would expect of sincerity, the deep sighing, crying, etc. I find it easy to cry and if I did not normally it might be that God would consider my tears in prayer a sign of my really wanting HIM to answer it. I love God, but I wish HE did not allow things to happen. I know that my getting a birth child would not turn me away from HIM or make me less of a believer, and I wish HE knew that.
@Neriz69 (1093)
• Philippines
6 Jun 08
I think that God does not have any preference on your position when you pray. He looks inside your heart.
@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
6 Jun 08
That makes sense. I just do not have as much faith as many do. I have been disappointed so many times and when you have been, you tend to this little thought buried inside that it will be the same as usual, and that makes me very sad and I feel like crying.
@Jlyn12 (56)
• United States
7 Jun 08
Here is an example from scripture in Luke 18:10-14. Jesus told the story of the Pharisee and the publican who both went to the temple to pray. The Pharisee had a high-minded attitude and told God basically how good he was. But, Jesus, said the publican "standing afar off, would not lift up so much as his eyes unto heaven, but smote upon his chest (wording changed), saying God be merciful to me a sinner". Here we see that he was standing and Jesus commended the attitude of his heart - which was genuine regreat and sorrow and humility. He was grieved at his sin - he smote upon his chest. His prayer was accepted. It is the attitude of the heart, that makes a difference. I personally like to kneel and believe it is a good thing to do, because it is humbling to kneel and it is a reminder of what the attitude of the heart should be. But I also pray in any posture - walking, riding, sitting. Prayer is not supposed to be something we just do for a set amount of time. We are commanded actually to pray without ceasing! That means, I am to always pray. Prayer should be like breathing. Constantly in conversation with God. But there are formal times of prayer and I enjoy taking a humble posture, as I humble my heart, before God.
@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
26 Jun 08
I bow my head in church and I will also kneel or I will lay in bed, and fold my hands together. It is just that I like to be heard by God and I also wonder whether when I am walking, and thinking of something, whether that would count as prayer. I did try kneeling at the foot of my bed for a while, but it was the same thing as when I was in bed under the covers, praying and I found that I could pray longer under the covers and get more details in then when I was praying kneeling down.
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
6 Jun 08
suspenseful I think God is more interested in what we say in our prayers than what body position we are in. I feel if I bow my head thats showing my humility enough as its hard for me to even get down on my knees. My prayers will still be just as valid.
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@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
26 Jun 08
It is not hard for me to kneel, but when I did it when I was a young woman in my twenties, I boarded with this lady who always asked me questions whenever I did, and it got so I felt that when I knelt, I had to be as quick as possible (and I am a fast talker) so my prayers were not that deep. When I go and lay in bed, then my prayers have a deepness. In fact, they are so deep, that I fall asleep, wake up again, and then continue the prayer. Sometimes it may take over an hour.
• Philippines
6 Jun 08
It is not posture of our body that God looks upon but the posture of our heart to accept the total freedom we have in Jesus! We have been locked up in condemnation for years...satan has limited our belief to the actions that we make over the freedom to fly in the spirit together with Him! We can do it because Jesus was that freedom that broke the bounderies of those external signs to the more significant spiritual posture in His presence!
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@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
6 Jun 08
I sometimes feel that I have felt that my prayers have not been answered that I sort of think that I am taking a chance. So I guess is that what I need is not a more prayerful position but that a belief that God will answer my prayers. I have to get over my doubt and that is hard to do.
@Babymycah (166)
• Philippines
5 Jun 08
It does not matter what you are doing when you pray... what matters is what's in your heart. Even without speaking God already knows what we need anyway, He just wants us to realize our needs. God alway's answer our prayers only sometimes the answer is "No, Something better will come your way" or "Not yet".
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@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
6 Jun 08
I would rather listen to the "not yet" because sometimes when a prayer is not answered then others may think bad of you or expect something different from you. For instance, my prayer for birth children, well I know that some women are very good with working with handicapped children, as it is assumed that if you cannot bear your own, you have this overwhelming love of children who are disabled, but I would worry that they would fall asleep and die in the night, or would get hurt and I would not know how to help them. Then there is the opposite, thinking that God did not let me bear children because if I had, he would be the next John Gacey, then the thought that (We adopted, so that was disproven)God does not grant children because you are more interested in career than family. So by not granting a prayer, sometimes there are negative things assumed of one. I suppose another example would be someone praying for a good job, and until he gets that good job, people assume he to be a lazy b*m.
• Philippines
7 Jun 08
Being a parent is not on the blood relation but in the heart... maybe God have not granted your wish yet so you could be a parent to those children you adopted.
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