Do you judge an individual base on her actions?

United States
January 9, 2008 7:44pm CST
I have a friend who was studying the previous semester. But as of this semester she stops because she is planning to transfer to a state university that only accepts new enrollee on the beginning of school year. she said she has no enough photos of her friends to treasure and to look at when she will leave and study to other place and she also has no remembrance of herself in that school. Because she herself has not taken a picture of herself wearing uniform. She decided that tomorrow she will wear again here school uniform even if she is not a student and will go to her previous school and ask her friends to take pictures with her wearing the uniform of the school. What do you think would other people say of her actions. Do you think they will think she is insane for doing such unusual thing? if you were on her side, would you do the same? For me it is not bad to do that things, and what people will think will not matter so long as I know I am not doing anything wrong that may affect somebody.
3 responses
@maebelle (190)
• Philippines
10 Jan 08
not necessarily.. for me, what she's doing is not insane, she didnt do anything, she just want a remembrance from her school and friends... people must not judge her because they dont know what she's up to... but we cannot avoid people who are like that...
• United States
10 Jan 08
for other people it will not matter, and maybe they will find her unique, but to other people they would think about in many different way. Well people do vary with regards to how they think, there are many factors that attributes to how people respond on what they see. just like when you do something that is beyond the norms, others will think badly about you
@maebelle (190)
• Philippines
10 Jan 08
yah.. it really depends on how people look at the situation... so i think to avoid that kind of judgment, i think it is better for them to observe or maybe ask for them to know what she really is up to..
@mensab (4208)
• Philippines
10 Jan 08
i think if she is not going to do anything wrong that will put the school in bad light, then it is ok. and if it clear to her that she will wear it for that reason, then there is nothing to worry about. i will not make any judgement on a person based her/his actions. or i will make an effort to understand her actions than judging her.
• United States
10 Jan 08
yeah, i think one should feel free to do what pleases for himself/herself so long as she was able to reflect it and know that it will not affect others. what other say might matter in some cases, but what is important is your freedom to do things.
@dania_elm (422)
• United States
10 Jan 08
i dont see how what she is doing is wrong. but to answer your question, yes i judge ppl bases on their actions. after all actions speak louder than words right? if a person is doing alot of illegal or morally wrong stuff i dont want anything to do with them. if they are surrounded by drama they can keep going. everybody messes up at some point. a wrong thing and a wrong thing there is no big deal. when its screw up after screw up, i wnat no part of it