How good are you in making enemies?

By Bala
@balasri (26577)
India
January 13, 2008 5:24am CST
I am very poor in that field.
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11 responses
@SEOGUY (906)
• United States
13 Jan 08
Are you kidding? Look at my star rating, LOL
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@balasri (26577)
• India
14 Jan 08
It is not the enemies you need but the friends.lol Let me join you as friend.
@SEOGUY (906)
• United States
14 Jan 08
You are on my list. Thanks
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@Rozie37 (15505)
• Turkmenistan
13 Jan 08
Apparently, I am very good at making enemies. All I have to do is be myself and people get jealous of me and turn and talk about me behind my back. This makes me very angry. The idea of people being jealous of me makes me very uncomfortable.
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@balasri (26577)
• India
14 Jan 08
The same reason why some people have enmity over me.Jealousy gets you more enemies inadvertently. So you get the best response.
@balasri (26577)
• India
15 Jan 08
Thanks for that opinion Laura.It is the week and insecure people with that inferiority complex who are jealous of other people.
@writersedge (22579)
• United States
14 Jan 08
An enemy is a stranger who hasn't figured out it's in their best interest to be your friend yet. But they figure it out eventually when it comes to me. Take care
@balasri (26577)
• India
15 Jan 08
Thanks .And you take care too.It is a great attitude you got there.
@diillu (5130)
13 Jan 08
Well, I must say that I'm pretty good to make enemries lol. I always say what it's on my mind. So, even I don't want I have loads more enemies. I know those people won't speak a word infront of me but when I"m not around then they just tend to speak alot more about me. And it is alot better not to have that kind of friends.
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@balasri (26577)
• India
15 Jan 08
There is no dearth for this kind of people Dillu.There are spineless and really don't have anything better to do.
@psyche49f (2512)
• Philippines
13 Jan 08
It's easy...all we have to do is to break all the rules, presto...people will hate you and will have enemies...by not paying the bills, by shouting even at wee hours at night...it would sure draw the ire of your neighbors...then at work, you report either drunk, or late or always be absent, etc, etc. But since we are all sensitive and level-headed we avoid all these things. There are times though that people who work for me seem to dislike me for imposing things they are not used doing, like requiring paper works to instill a research culture in our university. Recently, I tried asking it from colleagues, but found out that they are not really ready. I'm talking here about Deans, Principals and unit heads and managers. Gee whiz, it seems that this is a lonely battle. Better luck next time. But there are great ways at acquiring enemies...but of course, in return, we would not have peace of mind....
@balasri (26577)
• India
15 Jan 08
That is very interesting to read Psyche.Nice way of putting things.
@dramaqn (1990)
• United States
13 Jan 08
Hey, unfortunately, I'm the peacemaker. Not just with my friends, but with my exes also. I'm the type of person that once you become my friend, I'll be a friend for life. Even if you moved or stayed out of touch for awhile, and out of the clear blue sky looked me up and wanted to hang, or need help or advice, I will be there. This was a good topic. Thanks for posting.
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@wolfie34 (26881)
• United Kingdom
13 Jan 08
Only my ex's do they count? LOL! It seems none of my relationships in the past work out and end on an 'amicable' agreement, must be me then! The only enemies I have in my life, well life past are my broken relationships. I always seem to attract bullies, and to me bullies are enemies,I must have a home sensing beacon attracting the bu**ers! Hmmm lesson don't look for bullies and don't look for another relationship = no bullies ha simple
@shomomo (850)
• Israel
13 Jan 08
There are two ways to make enemies: either you simply don't care about the feelings of the other person and just say and do whatever you want without considering, or perhaps you hurt him when you don't realize that (or perhaps he's just mad at you for no apparent reason). No, I don't make enemies at all.
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@anonymili (3140)
14 Jan 08
Gosh what a powerful question you've posed! I am not good at all in making enemies. People always say I'm too soft for my own good. I don't think I need to make enemies, other people already have enemies for me to need any of my own LOL! Life is too short to be hating people, if we all stepped back and shared more affection than negative feelings, the world can slowly become a better place :) Here's to having NO enemies at all! x
@balasri (26577)
• India
14 Jan 08
Thanks.The aim is to bring the goodness of the people out.The level of their animosity.I am happy that most of my friends are peace lovers like you.
@Darkwing (21590)
13 Jan 08
Why would you ever want to make enemies my friend? You'd lead a very lonely and sorry life if you made a habit of it. No, continue the way you are... it's far more satisfying. Brightest Blessings.
@balasri (26577)
• India
13 Jan 08
I never wanted to make enemies my dear friend.I very well know the consequences.Thanks a lot for your blessings.Cheers.
@n3op66 (46)
• Cyprus
13 Jan 08
without wanting to do so, and without noticing it when that happens, it happens many times