Is there any offence you can never forgive your partner?

@12051976 (231)
Ghana
January 13, 2008 9:27am CST
As human as we are, as there any offence that when your partner commits it will be very difficult to forgive?
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@meemingNEW (2226)
• Philippines
13 Jan 08
Probably infidelity especially coming from your own spouse. Though I'm not married yet, I do know that it hurts when someone you love cheats on you regardless if you're married with him or not. I can't really say that I can never forgive him if he cheats on me.. But for sure, it will definitely take some time for me to forgive him, some time to heal the wounds and also some time for me to move on.
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@ersmommy1 (12588)
• United States
13 Jan 08
Very difficult would be adultery. That would be an ultimate sort of betrayal. And one I don't think I could stop myself from thinking about. If it actually happend, it would be on my mind daily. Probably not something that is easily gotten over. Let alone forgiven.
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• United States
24 Feb 08
My wife told me she would forgive anything but infidelity This is a big thing for most women and men. You have broken the trust of your parnter and if you have relations with another then they will always wonder who you love in your heart? I can see why men and women cheat. It is the urge to see some one who makes them excited and it is an ego boast to play with fire. But when you play with fire someone is going to be burned. Some culture have a man who is allowed a misstress or two..but it is not a good thing for the family as this causes much confusion in relationships later on. People may forgive your partner but they rarely forget the sin. Children are said to love their parents but rarely do they forgive them..an old saying. When you are older you will see the wisdom of a lot of old sayings..but when you are younger you like to sow your wild oats...more for men then women.. To error is human..to forgive divine
@Naomi17 (624)
25 Feb 08
Cheating is one thing i don't think i could forgive it rips a family apart and you can't go back to the way things used to be no i couldn't forgive i expect loyalty
• United States
25 Feb 08
SO Far I am had no problems with my wife but the fact that this could happen always keeps one on their toes. You should never take anyone for granted as the last person to find out usually is the husband or wife..good luck.
@12051976 (231)
• Ghana
1 Mar 08
I like what you said in your message, there are a lot of wisdom in old saying. That's very very true. You are wise and be a doer of those cos it more blessing. many thanks
@mensab (4200)
• Philippines
13 Jan 08
yes, cheating is very hard to forgive and forget. it always comes back and haunts the relationship. with cheating comes also dishonesty. it is very difficult to justify and understand cheating from any point of view. i think that is the offence that i wii find difficulty in forgiving my partner.
@tmg761 (19)
• Denmark
23 Feb 08
yes - betrayal. Definately betrayal - of any kind. It's unforgiveable in my mind.