Diamonds... what is it that makes a woman go ga-ga over them?

Diamonds... a woman's best friend? - Diamonds are forever.
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@ahgong (10064)
Singapore
January 15, 2008 2:55pm CST
Have you ever wondered who made the very first diamond? Who put the value on diamonds way back in history? Have you ever wondered who cut/design the first diamond as we know it today? What is it about this little shiny rock that get women all worked up about owning them? Why is it that a man must be measured by the size of the diamond he can afford? I am just thinking out loud here. What is it about these little shiny rocks that is so attractive? Why is it substitutes like man-made diamonds are not acceptable when it comes to wearing bling bling?
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@kazey901 (173)
• United States
16 Jan 08
Diamonds are a girls best friend :D I'm not partially fond of them myself as they are cloudy and look fake even when they are real. The only diamonds I wear are my engagement ring and a few little pieces my hubby has brought me. I love pearls more than diamonds because they are classy and dignified with outfits as diamonds put off the impression that your rich and well off and give the wrong impression on some people.
@ahgong (10064)
• Singapore
26 Jan 08
I too love pearls among other gem stones. I find the shiny satin color of pearls really beautiful. The smooth touch of the pearl is also something I love. If you can get your hands on some nice pearls, they seem to glow with life! Pearls too come in a variety of colors. From the white ones we all know about, there are also pink pearls, Black pearls too. Which color pearls do you like the most?
@Galena (9110)
16 Jan 08
they are sparkly. I'm a bit of a magpie. I love sparkly things. when we chose my engagement ring I did specifically want a white gold diamond solitaire. just because it's really classic and timeless I suppose. and pretty. and sparkly. it wasn't that expensive, as engagement rings go. but I love it lots and lots. it's not a large diamond. .20 carat, which seems to be smaller than most on the market, but it's really really really sparkly. in my case it's definitely not about what other people think. I don't care if other people think, oh it's small or it's cheap or whatever. it's my engagement ring. and I like the sparkliness. I sometimes sit there making it catch the light. somehow that makes me happy. easily pleased really :D Opals are more my stone, really, especially the black ones. but I already have an amazing Black Opal ring. I wear that on my other hand. it would have been very difficult and probably very expensive to find a black opal ring to out-do that one. my ring is actually the only diamond I own. I have quite a lot of opals. I think that makes it more special too.
@ahgong (10064)
• Singapore
26 Jan 08
Hi Galena, I am glad that you are able to get the ring that you love for your engagement. I too find the sparkling diamond quite attractive to look at. I guess for a valuable occassion like engagements, an expensive stone does go a long way to express the way you feel for the woman you love. Opals are nice gems too. Good choice of gems you got there. Thanks for sharing your thoughts Galena.
@lecanis (16647)
• Murfreesboro, Tennessee
16 Jan 08
I've wondered for years what women saw in diamonds, and I'm a woman myself. There are a lot of gems I would choose before a diamond if choosing my own gem for something. My engagement ring has sapphires. A ring given to me by a lover: amethyst. Jewelry from an old friend: turquoise. Earrings given by my father and stepfather: onyx. A necklace symbolizing my connection with my child: emerald. If it were up to me, I don't think I'd ever own a diamond. As it is, there are small ones on my engagement ring alongside the bigger sapphire because my husband didn't feel right otherwise. I've never wondered about the history of the diamond because it wasn't even interesting enough for me to study. They're just... blah to me.
@ahgong (10064)
• Singapore
26 Jan 08
ha ha ha ha ha... ever since I started this thread, I am also starting to find more women who do not like the diamond. I was always having the impression that women will go weak in the knees when presented with a huge diamond as a gift. Guess I am so so wrong! :p Thanks for that insight lecanis!
@laurika (4532)
• United States
16 Jan 08
This is pretty amazing questions there. You know I never really was into this diamonds, but i got my engagement ring with diamond. And now i see what it is about. Everyone just want to show it, but i don't think is neccesary. After i seen the movie bloody diamond I don't think we should really love them so much, when the people in Africa are dying for them and being killed.
@ahgong (10064)
• Singapore
26 Jan 08
Hello laurika, thanks for sharing. I am just thinking out loud there. Questions that has been on my mind about diamonds all the time. Heh heh... I do agree with you that after seeing the movie by Leonardo Dicarpio, I do have reservations about getting another diamond. The amount of blood spilled just to get to those stones is really ridiculous! Imagine, where diamonds are mined, they are not even considered valuable to the commoners there!
• Australia
16 Jan 08
I'm not a big fan of diamond but I do love the way it sparkles! I really don't think it's worth paying thousands of dollars for a tiny rock though.
@ahgong (10064)
• Singapore
26 Jan 08
I guess the way the light reflects off the diamonds is attractive to many. Thank you for sharing your thoughts nothingbetter2do. So, if it is not worth paying thousands of dollars for a diamond, what would you have spend that money on then? If you are given thousands of dollars to spend on a gem, which one would you choose then? This is granted that you cannot spend the money on other things other than getting a gem stone.
@cici0081 (27)
• China
16 Jan 08
The reason is diamond is really shiny,beatiful,and luxury,the most important is that maintains shiny for a long time,be good for collection,wow,it is great!
@ahgong (10064)
• Singapore
26 Jan 08
hmm... cici0081, there are also a lot of other shiny gems that are worth keeping. Stones that maintains it shine through the years are so varied and many. Why is it that you are so attracted to the diamond? Is the reason it is shiny and luxurious the only reason? Why the preference for diamonds over other gem stones?
15 Jan 08
I don't like diamonds, so i'm not sure what makes people like them. With some people who just like money being spent on them(like someone i know and hate) i think its just because its something expensive. I don't mind having cheaper versions of things, because they arn't usually that much different the more expensive things. It could be something to do with them being shiny, but then they wouldn't mind having the cheaper jewellery because its just as shiny. ~Joeys wife
@ahgong (10064)
• Singapore
26 Jan 08
ha ha ha ha ha... Joey is one lucky man to have you as his wife. If every woman thinks like you, the diamond business will go bust! Then again, if every woman thinks like you, the diamonds would not be so expensive. Heh heh... I do agree that there are alternatives that are just as pretty. The swarofskis clear crystals are a close match if you know how to play with the designs.
• United States
15 Jan 08
I've gotten more diamonds in the past year then I have ever gotten in my entire life. My soon to be husbands idea of gifts for any occasion is jewelry. While they are nice and sparkly and oh so pretty they aren't my favorite rock. I love rubies. I would take a ruby over a diamond any day. And it can be real or lab created. It doesn't matter to me. It truly is the thought that counts.
@ahgong (10064)
• Singapore
26 Jan 08
That is so sweet of your husband to be buying so many diamond pieces for you. If you like the ruby so much, how come your husband did not get you more rubies instead of diamonds? Being a man myself, I find getting gifts are such a headache. This is because you never know if you are getting the right thing. Cos you never know if the item you are getting is liked by the receiver. But if you know for sure, then it would be so much easier to get the gift. Unless you hubby does not know your preference, I am sure he would rather spend the money on something you like. Let him know your preference for rubies. I am sure he will appreciate it!
• United States
15 Jan 08
I don't know what it is all about. I have never been one that reall liked to wear jewerly. It just gets in my way. It really upsets my husband because all the normal stuff he could by for birthdays and such does not interest me. I don't know why they call it a wonen's best friend. i don't see the pull to them. Yes they are pretty but what does it really prove to have a lot of them of big ones. it makes no since to me.
@ahgong (10064)
• Singapore
26 Jan 08
ha ha ha ha ha... you are the first woman I come across that doesn't like the diamonds totally. I so agree with you on the last statement. Even for a man, I do find the stones a little nice to look at. But to fork out a fortune for one, I will usually think twice. Unless the receiver really love it, I would never consider it as a gift. I guess I will always be on the look out for a nicer gift for my wife when special occasions arises. Thanks for sharing your thoughts graedragon.