do you ever wonder what has happened to your old friends here on mylot

@suehan1 (4344)
Australia
January 15, 2008 5:52pm CST
what happens to all your old friends,like when you first joined,some of them seem to dissappear,or you never see any posts from them,or replys from them anymore.do you see if they are still active or do you just assume they have moved on
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@mjweed21 (693)
• Philippines
17 Jan 08
I don't know. Guessing might sometimes lead us into a great mistakes.:)
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@suehan1 (4344)
• Australia
17 Jan 08
yes you are right,it is probably better not to know.cheers sue
@pterion (417)
• India
16 Jan 08
aww..dont get stuck up with old friends, at least they're just e-friends, dont worry new ones join up..tc.
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@suehan1 (4344)
• Australia
17 Jan 08
yes you are right.i will enjoy my new ones.cheers sue
@raijin (10345)
• Philippines
16 Jan 08
I know some friends of mine here for a year, some of them just visit this site ocassionally. Maybe because some of them are busy doing something more fruitful in their personal lives, since having a good day job is better than staying on our seats and post here on mylot. Some of those that left have their own good reasons, that they decided to keep on their own. I do miss most of them, but that's how life goes. People come and go, the best thing to do is continue and enjoy what is left for us and move on as well..
@suehan1 (4344)
• Australia
17 Jan 08
yes raijin you are correct that we should move on as they have probably got better things to do or are busy. i know i get busy at times and i am not on here as much as i like to.cheers sue
16 Jan 08
Yes I wonder sometime for some of them, but I can say that maybe they have things to do these times. I think this way 'cause before 3 months ago I was very busy and I did have the time to e active here. But than I come back again. Maybe I will disappear again in the future no one can tell it for sure. Life has unexpected events and no one know them before them happen.
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@suehan1 (4344)
• Australia
17 Jan 08
yes i suppose i will have my time when i will be away for a while also.that long overdue holiday where i will do absolutely nothing lol.yes life has definately got unexpected events for sure.thanks for responding.cheers sue
@Arshian (476)
• Pakistan
16 Jan 08
not really
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@suehan1 (4344)
• Australia
17 Jan 08
i suppose they come and go and really there is nothing that can be do ,so i shouldn't worry.thanks for your response.cheers sue
@johndur (3052)
• Pasig, Philippines
16 Jan 08
i assume they have move to other higher paying sites.because it is harder to earn now here in mylot than a few years back.but still i love mylot thats the reason why i am still here and its not for money anymore but for having some great fun while earning some few buck
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@suehan1 (4344)
• Australia
17 Jan 08
yes you are probably right,they might have gone to greener pastures. i do agree with you that i really enjoy mylot and i am not here for the money,more for the friendships and meeting new people on this site.cheers sue
@kiiizu (1901)
• Estonia
15 Jan 08
Yes, I do. I disappeared myself for about 6 months but now I'm back, hopefully to stay, but most of my former friends aren't active anymore. I'm even a bit concerned - there was a lady who was/is very ill, and now I discovered she logged in 2 months ago. She used to be very active... I hope very much everything is alright with her.
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@suehan1 (4344)
• Australia
16 Jan 08
i suppose people take a break every now and then, and probably some are away on holidays.you would get concerned if you knew one of your friends were ill,and there is probably no way of knowing if they are o.k.cheers sue
• United States
16 Jan 08
Sometimes when I am looking around the site looking to respond to then I wonder about some of them. It's amazing to see how many people have gone "MIA" since I started responding to discussions here. There are a lot of people no longer participating, but at the same time there are a lot of new people. I mostly assume people are no longer here; I myself even took a break for a while because of work and now I have only returned during my spare time.
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@suehan1 (4344)
• Australia
16 Jan 08
yes there are definately a lot of new people on mylot now and you tend to forget some of your original friends and then you have a look at your friends lists and you start to think i havent seen these guys for a while.we probably all at sometime will have a break.thanks for sharing.cheers sue
@subha12 (18441)
• India
16 Jan 08
Yes, i wonder sometimes. few days back also there were some who used to regualrly answer my discussions. I have seen that many people with very high ratings are not here now.May be they are busy with somethings else.
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@suehan1 (4344)
• Australia
16 Jan 08
yes maybe they are busy with other things.i surprised with the ones with high ratings not being around anymore,maybe they are onto something good and havent told us.cheers sue