hard desicion...

Netherlands
January 17, 2008 4:48pm CST
what if u came to a position to choose if u want to have a relationship u always wanted, but can't do it because the obligation u feel about spending alot of time with her will lose your consentration for school. what would u do??
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• United States
18 Jan 08
In situations like that you have to answer some questions for yourself about things. Do you absolutely want to keep this relationship? Can you fulfill both obligations of a relationship and school? I'd say you have to balance both, keep both going and try to succeed with both. It will be the same way with relationships once you get out of school. You will have to keep a relationship while filling your obligation of a job. Just hang in there, maybe talk to your significant other so that they know where you stand, how important school is to you but also how important the relationship is. You'll be fine with both.
• Netherlands
18 Jan 08
school is my top priority so i think my school is very important to me, but the relationship i always wanted to have is a feelings which i cannot lose. i don't know i think that if i have a relationship with her i don't freak about it anymore.
• United States
18 Jan 08
Yeah it shouldn't be two hard to concentrate hard on school while still maintaining your relationship. It just takes the will power and hard work to overcome obstacles like that.
@Ohara_1983 (4120)
• Kuwait
18 Jan 08
if for me, i will rather choose my study, because relationship can wait if that really for me & we will in one hand in the right time, but my opportunity for being student will not come in anytime.