i am getting married this year
By babymar
@babymar (359)
Philippines
January 20, 2008 3:43am CST
there was already a schedule of my engagement party and of my wedding day...i'm quite nervous and confused...i don't know what to do, i'm sure that i'm gonna miss my family...my mother, brothers and sister. but i love my boyfriend and want to be with him for the rest of my life....the thing is, i am the one who is managing our family business, if i get married, what about our business? who will manage it? so, i'm confused now...what am i going to do?
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10 responses
@Helpingfriends4uu (150)
• India
22 Jan 08
First of all a lot's of congratulations to you .Wishing you all the best for you future.I think if ur boyfriend loves and understand you, then your problem of managing your family business would be solved to some extent, you should discuss your problem with him,afterall he also going to become the son of your family know.I know it is really not so easy but not so difficult also.Just wishing you Good Luck and take care.:)
@Helpingfriends4uu (150)
• India
23 Jan 08
just leave everyting to God, bcoz he must be planning someting great for you.Lot's fo God blessings and Good luck.:)
@Buchi_bulla (8298)
• India
28 Jan 08
Congratulations for the coming Happy Wedding Day. If you are in the same place, I am sure you can manage the business along with your newly started family bliss. If you are going to live in a different place, entrust to some trust worthy people and I am sure you can manage with weekly visits and through phone, email etc. My blessings for a Happy Married Life.
@4skaisthelimit (412)
• Niger
22 Jan 08
Congratulation my friend.May God bless your union with joy and happiness.
Good luck.
@MorningDew (833)
• Saudi Arabia
23 Jan 08
Hi there..
First: congratulations wish you happiness...
Second: I know getting married is the hardest decision we make in life. I mean you leave your family's home and move to live with a man who only God knows how he's gonna be and if he'll ever change. But if you love him and he loves you back then this is the greatest experience on earth -I mean being with him forever-...
Third: about your family business, can't you still work on it during marriage. I mean he might be able to help you through it, ask one of your brothers or sister if they can't you can use professional help if you can't continue working on it..
Wish you the best :*
@bishu_sinha (1457)
• India
22 Jan 08
Congratulations and wish a happy marriage life for ever.
When men are in short supply due to events such as wars, women are willing to settle for poorer partners of lesser social sway.
However, when men are in abundance, women tend to turn choosy, driving a bargain for the richest and most powerful men. This in turn, has the marriage prospects of poor-off male "drastically reduced.
Be happy, think possitive always.
@danzer (2723)
• Philippines
20 Jan 08
Congratulations for the coming wedding you will have with your boyfriend.
When you decide to marry, it means leaving your father and mother and to be with your man for the rest of your life. Your man I believe will provide for you and your family. Don't worry about your family business. Your parents will do the solving!
My best wishes!
@skysuccess (8858)
• Singapore
22 Jan 08
First of all, my heartiest congrats on your marriage.
I think life will still go on as usual after your marriage i.e. the both of you will continue with your worklife with the exception that the both of you will be living together. I do not see any interferance and conflicts in going about your running the family business.
You may want to get your brothers / sister to be involved so that you can pass on the business to in the future. But in all, whatever you have and will decide I think you will need to keep your hubby informed. Don't forget that it is essential that the both of you remember the importance of communication.
All the best.
