2 years in relationship but never lasted

Philippines
January 22, 2008 1:36am CST
i've been in 2 years with my bf but then as days passed by, seems things get worst and complicated. lot of reasons why we broke up. i guess we're not really for each other. it's just too painful and i can hardly move on. i tried to divert my attention to other stuffs instead of reminiscing the moments we had. sometimes, i just can't get off of him in my head. i wish the wound would heal fast for me to fully recover from the heartache.
3 responses
@mimpi1911 (25455)
• India
22 Jan 08
Dearest, it's very to tough to let go and move on but that is the only option. We have to move on in life and live life no matter what. Memories are sweet, memories are bitter but we cannot let those curb our advancement. I am sure, someone, somewhere, that Mr. Right is waiting for you eagerly. So, go ahead, grab his hand before it's too late. *Cheers*
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• Philippines
22 Jan 08
you're right that i should let go and move on...maybe it only takes time and courage to face the fact that we don't have each other anymore.
@mimpi1911 (25455)
• India
24 Jan 08
Yes, I know. It would take time. My wishes are with you always. Good luck!
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• Philippines
6 Feb 08
thanks for the concern, i appreciate it.
• Singapore
22 Jan 08
Yes it is hard to cope with it for the first few months after the break-up. I had experienced it before for my 5 years relationship with my gf and after the break-up, I tried to divert my attention to something else as well. But as the time goes by, the tension will fade away.
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• Philippines
22 Jan 08
i agree with you, thanks for the comment.
@raijin (10380)
• Philippines
22 Jan 08
Mine was more horrible, I am not sued to short-term relationships and I always consider everything FOREVER. But I guess I do not hold what my future brings for me, so we ended our relationship within just a couple of months. I was also devastated by it, but am now lucky that I've recovered and overcame that tragic time in my life. I guess you just have to live with it at this moment, sooner or later you'll get over it. Just make your time worthwhile, seek the company and comfort of your friends. Seek yourself, take time alone and think of better things to do. Sometimes, you'll discover new stuffs that you never thought you'd enjoy during these times. You'll get by it, I'm sure, just don't try to think much about him. You can always be here on mylot, if ever you just want to be alone and keep your mind busy without worrying about anything..
• Philippines
22 Jan 08
yeah, i guess things happen for a reason. i know i'll get over it at the right time. for now, i have to focus on myself and my career as well. thanks for the advice anyway.