Is there someone in yourl life?

United States
January 24, 2008 3:03pm CST
Is there someone in your life that you can not forgive? That no matter what youryyou can not get over what they did to you? Or have you been successful in forgiving? When you forgive, do you forget? And, if you forgive does the relationship go back to what it was before or is it continually strained?
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@besthope44 (12123)
• India
29 Aug 10
Well i forgive others..and may be not quickly but anyways at last. I feel i am not a god to punish rather to forgive as a human.
@maddysmommy (16230)
• United States
24 Jan 08
Thank God I don't have anyone in my love that I can not forgive. All those who have treated me badly and such, I have forgiven and mostly have forgotten too. I don't hold grudges and let things go - its more healthier for me that way! I have wronged a few people and have noticed that our friendship is not the same as it use to be, so that tells me even though we have sorted out our disagreement and apologised profusely, they have not forgotten what I did to them or how I treated them. My fault I know!
@zeloguy (4911)
• United States
24 Jan 08
Forgive me - Monkey asking for forgiveness. Very funny
I don't believe there is anything that anyone can do that you cannot forgive them. There are times where people do things and it is a more of a feeling sorry for them then a forgiveness but I for clarity sake wrap that up into one word. Forgiveness is not the hard part... forgetting/letting go of the past and moving on towards the future is the hard part!
@terri0824 (4991)
• United States
24 Jan 08
I have had a situation with my youngest sister. I forgive her for her actions and the relationship has been strained, and it was almost getting to be alright when she did the same exact thing once again. I do forgive her once again, but I do have my guard up. I know she is suffering with some mental health issues, so as not to have another confrontation with her again, I limit being around her.