love at first sight?

January 27, 2008 9:42am CST
do you belive in love at first sight? are you still with the same person.or is it all a myth.what do you think.
8 responses
@dopey22girl (3324)
• United States
27 Jan 08
I didn't, until Spanish class this past semester. There was a guy in my class that I had never spoken to, but something about him seemed like he was someone I would want to get to know better. I ended up sending him an email, and he is like the perfect guy. So now I have to wonder about love at first sight.
27 Jan 08
hooray for spanish class ...i hope everyhing is beautiful and happy for you.i do believe in love at first sight as when i met my husband in a night club,i was only sixteen but i knew the first moment that he was the one,and 20 years on we are still in love.
• United States
28 Jan 08
I totally believe in love at first sight. I met my husband 4 years ago at a bar. I was sitting at the bar when he walked through the front door. I took one look at him and I feel off my bar stool. He ran over and helped me up. We started talking and we have been together ever since that moment. I feel in love as soon as I seen him and he says the same thing. We have been together 4 years and married for 2. we have a beautiful little girl she's 21 months and we are working on our 2nd. Hopefully a little boy. We are as happy as can be. Everyone says we are the perfect couple. So needless to say I believe in love at first sight. Michelle
• United States
28 Jan 08
I totally believe in love at first sight. I met my husband 4 years ago at a bar. I was sitting at the bar when he walked through the front door. I took one look at him and I feel off my bar stool. He ran over and helped me up. We started talking and we have been together ever since that moment. I feel in love as soon as I seen him and he says the same thing. We have been together 4 years and married for 2. we have a beautiful little girl she's 21 months and we are working on our 2nd. Hopefully a little boy. We are as happy as can be. Everyone says we are the perfect couple. So needless to say I believe in love at first sight. Michelle
• Australia
28 Jan 08
i believe in love at first sight, but i also believe that love isn't supposed to last forever. Not the love for your family but lovers love. I think that is why it is so hard to understand love, and although we are completly inlove with someone we are still attracted to many people, even if we dont act on it. I think this is why all lovers has their problems, and we all loose that just met spark eventually. i think there is a bond between 2 lovers that can last forever but the love fades in time.
• China
28 Jan 08
i think it exists . but it is immature . because only depend on the first sight , you don't know about that person . a series of problem will come gradually . sometimes the appearance will cheat you .
@piatos03 (396)
• Philippines
28 Jan 08
This question is way overdone, but hey, I like answering it anyway. The hopeless romantic sap in me will always believe in love at first sight. Although it has never happened to me, I still think and hope that someday it will. I do have those crush at first sights though. But doesn't everybody right? Now, the cynical person in me begs to differ. Whenever I feel down and whenever I feel like love is stupid, I think that there is no such thing as love at first sight. There is such a thing as lust at first sight though. Because who can meet the love of their lives just by looking at them. They could turn out to be psychos or something. Plus, it is all a physical thing. You are only attracted to one part. And to truly love someone, I think there should be three integral parts. Mind, body and soul.
• United States
28 Jan 08
I didn't fall in love with my husband at first sight - but I did our first date !!!! From that date on we didn't see other people, got married 9 months later. And stayed married 20 years !!! He passed away in 2005 at a young age. Yet he is still the love of my life. I live as though I am still married and plan to do so forever.
@VampAmber (308)
• United States
27 Jan 08
I used to believe in love at first sight, especially a few years ago when I fell in "love" at first sight with my friend, Tom. Unfortunately, he was an absolute jerk, who used me and tossed me aside. Afterwards, I was stupid enough to still be obsessed with him. As for now, I've found all but the perfect guy for me (I say "all but" because nobody is perfect), but I didn't fall in love with him until we started dating six month ago, even though we'd been friends for three years prior. You can falling in lust at first sight, you can fall in like at first sight, you can fall in crush at first sight, but loves takes time to grow. At least true love does.