what is the most important thing in love??

January 28, 2008 3:23am CST
My friend left her boyfriend because he dont give much time to her. she knows that he loves her .Boy says he needs some time to establish his career but my friend dont want to listen anything. what u think my friend is wrong or right? what u think what is most important thing in love time money family or what??
8 responses
@royanne (372)
• Philippines
28 Jan 08
Your friend is not wrong at all. It's just that maybe she doesn't want to understand the guy cause she thinks that she must be more inportant to that person than any other thing in this world. And you know what? I think she herself understands the situation more than anyone else but she just doesn't want to accept. It's just sometimes when we love a person so much we become possesive and we just want all their attention to us. Even if they say that they love us at least, at least every girl would want they're boyfriends to show some efforts upon showing they're love right? At least that's what i feel. Single gestures means so much even if there were no words. The best thing your friend could do right now is probably ask the guy if he is committed to their relationship as much as he is committes to his career cause if he is he needs to try hard on balancing things cause he might lose the other. If the guy isn't,then maybe she should just let him go because it doesn't seem right if she is the only one keeping the relationship work. Cause it won't actually work that way. So, i guess that's it. It's best to move on... cause she won't get nowhere if she's stuck with some guy. I think everyone deserve's to find someone who'll love them the way they wanted. God Bless!! n_n
28 Jan 08
yes ur right dear n thanx u helped me to understand my friend
@royanne (372)
• Philippines
7 Feb 08
thank a lot for making me the best response. i'm glad to be of help to you. :)
7 Feb 08
thanku :)
@sweetgarg (392)
• India
29 Jan 08
i think the most imp thing is love , and the trust trust is very neccesary in love life . and admire the other one
@aman1986 (39)
• India
29 Jan 08
i think there are more than one factors which are important.. love money family and time.. i dont blame ur friend for leaving her bf but she cud have given her boyfriend some time..career is also very important..i think money is also important and her bf wsnt wrong in asking for sometime to make his career.
@wanksta (23)
• India
29 Jan 08
i think ur friend has 2 give her guy some time...let him estabish his career or whetever....and af8r tht he'll be free...and can do w/e ur friends wants him 2 do..or somethin like tht :P :P
@babymar (361)
• Philippines
28 Jan 08
i think the most important thing is time...coz you can never bring back time...in love, you should also have time for the person you love so that he/she will not feel that some things are more important than him/her....
• India
28 Jan 08
Hi neha211985, Her boy friend is very intelligent. He is planning for their future. How can he run a family without settling or without getting a good job. It seems she need only love and that some how her boyfriend has to keep her good. This is not fair. So, It is wrong on her part. Good Luck.
• China
28 Jan 08
add , consideration is necessary . the couple should think more for his partner , only because you love him or her .
• China
28 Jan 08
i think love is important , but we also need money . if they love each other , they can choose making money together.