If your parents never had a successful relationship does that mean you would....

United States
January 29, 2008 12:25am CST
If your parents never had a successful relationship does that mean you won't have a successful relationship either, for exmaple if your mother, mother, never got married and was treated bad by men, and then your mother came along and was treated bad by men and never got married, does that mean, you will never get married and will be treated bad by men too?
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@diillu (5128)
29 Jan 08
With all the bad things that's happening around us doesn't mean that good things doesn't exists at all. And if your mother couldn't have the good relationship doesn't mean that you wouldn't have too. She was treated bad my men cause she came through bad men but there are good men as well. So, it doesn't mean that you will have bad relationship as well.
• United States
29 Jan 08
Thanks for your advice, I guess I just have to know what I want in a man, thanks again for your advice
@punlonnjack (1309)
• United States
29 Jan 08
no i dont believe so. my mother was married 6 times yes 6 times. the men she was married to were terrible and abusive. ive been married 8 years now and been with him 12 years. my husband knows i am totally agaist being abused and he respects me.he doesnt treat me bad and im only going to be married once in my life so i dont think it matters about your parents relationships.i think it depends on an individual choice what determines your fate who you are to be with and how they treat you.
• United States
29 Jan 08
Thanks for your advice, I guess you just have to know who to pick and know what you want and what is right for you, thanks so much for your opinion