interesting fictional question 4

Philippines
January 29, 2008 8:56pm CST
this is a fictional question. i just want your opinion on this matter. here goes: your friend and your boyfriend had a one-night stand that eventually you found out. whom will you choose? a) your bf and ditch your friend b) your friend and break-away from your bf c) ditch them both and why?
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• United States
30 Jan 08
This one is easy. I'd ditch them both because obviously I can't trust either of them, and they don't care enough about me to not betray me.
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@rexiemay (402)
• Philippines
21 Apr 08
hi bettyrose20. i'll ditch both of them. i'll breakup with my boyfriend because he is not worthy for sleeping with my friend (of all people). he broke my trust and i dont want to be with someone i dont trust. i'll ditch my friend. she doesnt deserve my friendship. i dont need someone who would steal my boyfriend. if she had been a friend, she should have known that sleeping with my boyfriend is one of the greatest crime in a friendship. thanks!
• Philippines
19 Apr 08
of course, I can dispatch them both because I know that they both betrayed me but, one thing that I have to consider is if I will be happy to loose someone I loved. Its also a matter of weighing your feelings... and whom to forgive?
@Elixiress (3893)
12 Apr 08
Ditch them both, but I would find it easier to forgive my best friend than my boyfriend.
• India
31 Mar 08
Of course ditch them both, its hard to b with a person who just doesnt have respect 4 my feelings, in fact i wud hate him.And my frend, she cud not b my frend if shez done what she did.So both r off....
31 Jan 08
ditch them both they're not worth your time or love if they can go behind your back in that way. if your partner cheated with somebody other than friend or family you might be able to forgive them but when they do it with a friend they've hurt you twice over. get better friends and a faithful partner
• United States
30 Jan 08
If that happened to me i would ditch both!!! If she was my best friend she would have never touched my boyfriend that is such a betrayel. As for the guy to cheat on me is bad enough but with my friend is pretty much as low as you can get with out him sleeping with a fam member.
• India
30 Jan 08
dithch both of them....... is there any need to specify why? this is biggest betryal on both there parts and it deserves no forgiveness under any circumstances.
@Nottie (53)
• Finland
30 Jan 08
I agree with everyone else here and pick the C. I would be very disappointed in both and couldn't trust in either of them anymore. For me trust is very important and without trust there is nothing. I would also lose respect for both of them.
@gunlock (55)
• Philippines
30 Jan 08
C. Of course... . TRUST is the hardest thing to get, yet the most fragile.. and worst - It can't be returned back... betrayal is what I hate most..
• Indonesia
30 Jan 08
c) ditch them both. I don't like people who lies, and they obviously have been lying to me. And I couldn't be looking at them with comfort again after this.
@asgtswife04 (2482)
• United States
30 Jan 08
Definitely C. For one thing, your friend wasn't really your friend if she would do that to you and the other is that your boyfriend isn't much of a boyfriend if he would do that to you either. Neither of them would be worth keeping in my book because you would never be able to trust either of them again. She might go after a new boyfriend if you kept her as a friend and got rid of him or he would probably cheat again if you choose him over your friend. You don't need either if they are that way. thanks for posting and God bless
• United States
30 Jan 08
Trust is a very important part of a relationship and when they both decided to have a one-night stand the trust was broken. They did not care enough for your feelings and to honor the friendship from both parties (both your friend and your boyfriend) I would ditch them both. It would not matter what kind of excuse they came up with. They would both be told to leave and not bother coming back or getting in touch with me.