What do you do?

@jdeforge (224)
United States
January 30, 2008 8:47am CST
What are some ideas of things I can do for myself. My boyfriend sometimes wants his time...thats fine. But I'm left sitting there bored and then I get resentful. I need a hobby..a club..something. Anyone have some ideas?
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@theprogamer (10539)
• United States
2 May 08
Old discussion and I'll probably look stupid for this response but... didn't you have Warcraft? The only other thing I can say is maybe pick up a book or two, or look into a different game to play (stepmania is a good option, its on computer and its like DDR but you can use the keyboard). You could also try RPG Maker XP just to make a small RPG or at least as a diversion for you.
@jdeforge (224)
• United States
2 May 08
I do have Warcraft :) but since he plays it sometimes I feel like I should be in another room or be somewhere outside the house to give us alone time and space. Now that its nicer out, I could read out on the porch :)
@theprogamer (10539)
• United States
2 May 08
Ah, I didn't think of that. Couples do need some apart time. "Now that its nicer out, I could read out on the porch:)" I had the same thoughts since its spring now. =3
@angelface23 (2498)
• United States
30 Jan 08
go out with your friends, go shopping or get a coffee. Windowshop, call your mom, write a letter, write a poem, go to Petsmart and visit the kitties!
@jdeforge (224)
• United States
30 Jan 08
All great ideas. I just moved to Ohio from Connecticut, my friends and family are all back home. Guess that could be why I"m struggling. Going to Petsmart is a great idea, but I'd end up bringing home more cats LOL and the two I have wouldn't appreciate it :) At least when its warm out I can lay by the pool and read, or take a walk. But when its 14 degrees outside its hard.
@jayman32 (268)
• Australia
30 Jan 08
what about reading, David Eddings is a good author. or go nuts with mylot.......
@jayman32 (268)
• Australia
30 Jan 08
oops, hit the wrong button.......
@Elixiress (3893)
2 May 08
Go out with your friends. Have a girly night? That is what I do, when I am not doing college work, which is all I seem to do at the moment. Maybe start going to the gym or something, I am planning on starting soon when I have more spare time.
• United States
4 Feb 08
I have that problem, not that boyfriend wants his time, but he works odd hours compared to mine. I do a lot of crafts and make him silly little things while he works. I made a stuffed pop tart out of felt and gave it a cute little face and everything. Or beading, needle point, cross stitch. I'm a craft crazy girl.
• China
31 Jan 08
well,it's always hard to get well response from your friends when you really feel alone. But you need to stay with people so as to stop missing him,right? And,if your could do something which will show your another side making him surprise, that would be nice,right? My opinion is to join community service or welfare work,people you helped will pray for you and your loveer,you'll contented yourself because your did a really significative work,and,your boyfriend will note:she is a girl with mercyight.
@chrysz (1603)
• Philippines
31 Jan 08
When I am left alone, I read books or watch films or series. I've also done crossstitching and chatting. You can also kill time and boredom here in mylot.
@jayman32 (268)
• Australia
30 Jan 08
what about reading, David Eddings is a good author.