Are my discussions invisible?

@dlkuku (1936)
United States
January 30, 2008 9:18am CST
I am starting I think I did something to offend almost every one on mylot. Or am I doing something wrong? I get few responses if any, even though I answer as many discussions as time allows that others post. I put time and effort into my discussions and it is quite disapointing to see no one respond or just a few responses. I try to answer the ones who do respond, but I don't have loads of time so sometimes it takes me a while. I know it was some months that I was gone but life just got in the way, and it seems that mylot just isn't the same as it was.
4 responses
@sminut13 (1786)
• Singapore
30 Jan 08
i dont think it's your fault. i think most users tend to look at the latest ones rather than the older ones thus the reason for no replies. for me, i guess you could say i'm one of those that only look for topics that i'm interested in. though most are like me i guess. grins but i only post to those that i think i can give advice on or share experiences with. i too don really look back too far. i just joined recetly so i don't know how it was then. but you can be sure if i'm interested in your discussions, i'll definitely put a post on them. best of luck.
@dlkuku (1936)
• United States
31 Jan 08
I understand what you are saying, I have a tendency to look for topics that interest me. What I don't get is all the one-liners that get a ton of responses!
@sminut13 (1786)
• Singapore
1 Feb 08
well making friends isn't much for mehere. i tend to get some common topics with people and they have added me but it's not like we're talking like friends if u know what i mean. and i totally get what u mean dkulu (sorry if spelt wrong) about the one liners. i see tht occassionally too. hehehe
@Liasonfan (1702)
• Canada
30 Jan 08
I don't think it is anybody's fault dlkuku. I don't think I have come across any of your discussion topics on my travels arount mylot yet, but if I do, I will be sure to respond. Sometimes people don't respond to nu topic choices either, but I keep at it!
@dlkuku (1936)
• United States
31 Jan 08
I always browse the new discussions just so I don't miss something interesting.
• Canada
30 Jan 08
I don't personally know if you have offended anyone on mylot, but you haven't offended me. I do things a little bit differently than most on here I think. I look for the discussions that have had no responses and I try to respond if I have something of value to say. I don't respond just to respond or anything like that. I have noticed that some discussions are really long and some don't get any responses at all. I'm not sure why this is. I was on mylot myself over a year ago and found that people spent more time replying to other peoples responses than they do now. I haven't read any of your other posts yet, but I will now. I wish you all the luck.
@dlkuku (1936)
• United States
30 Jan 08
Thank you. I always check the discussions with no responses and try to answer them if I have something to relevent to say.
• China
31 Jan 08
it seems that mylot just isn't the sme as it was ,i agree with you !i find it's a good site for ust to make friends with each other !