Cant quite understand her actions

@sissy67 (225)
United States
February 5, 2008 9:06am CST
A person that was a "good" friend of mine really hurt my feelings last summer. We had a mutual friend....one that neither of us knew really well....and that mutual friend got mad at me over something silly. Well, she is one to hold a grudge about hear say instead of just asking what really went on so we havent talked in a bit. Well, my "good" friend kinda stopped hangin out with me and started hangin out with her...which is fine cause u can have whoever u want as ur friend. But...my good friend wouldnt even mention the other persons name around me at all. I would find out that when I asked her to do something she would tell me she was doin on thing and then she would actually be with this other person. I realize that she may have just been sparing my feelings but here is the rst of the story. I have heard thru another friend that those two havent been hangin out much.....and this fits in with the time frame that my "good" friend has started calling me again....asking us over ant things like that. Just not sure of what to make of this.
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@kykidd (6819)
• United States
5 Feb 08
We can never know exactly what is going through another person's head. Sometimes it is best just to bring up the fact that she hurt your feelings, and then just forgive and forget. At least that way you have some time of closure on the situation because you spoke out.
@sissy67 (225)
• United States
5 Feb 08
She is a very private kinda person. Anytime I ever mention anything about the situation or the other person...she answers me very shortly and changes the subject so I just drop it.
@Chey1970 (1193)
• United States
5 Feb 08
Ok, to me it sounds like the "good" friend, really isn't much of a friend at all.. It seems more like she just needs the attention of others and since she was getting it from the other, she chose them, and when that end for whatever reason, she needs you back. This is only my opinion, but I think you should be a little cautious of the "friendship", if this person really matters to you, so you don't get hurt in the long run.
@sissy67 (225)
• United States
5 Feb 08
I was kinda thinking that maybe she could only have one friend at a time...and im just not like that. Im a peole kinda person..I like having several friends around me. I am talking to her again..but like u suggest...Im keepin my guard up and not gettin too close. It just hurts when u get done like this.