Please help me

@0cctt0 (27)
February 5, 2008 10:21am CST
My girlfriend and i lived in different cities .We fall in love each other very much originally,but our separated time is steadily .Between us appeared suspected.I am very painful,I love her very much. PLEASE HELP ME!
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@JJ4Ever (4696)
• United States
5 Feb 08
If I understand correctly, you and your girl are trying to maintain a long-distance relationship. My boyfriend and I are doing the same thing. We also live in two separate cities, which are about an hour drive apart. It's hard sometimes, but it's worth it if you truly love that person! I usually talk on the phone with him at least once or twice a day. I also write him e-mails sometimes and chat online almost everyday also. If we have things to share, we won't wait. We will talk to each other right away. Probably our most common form of communication is text messaging on the cell phone. I'm thankful for the relationship because the long distance keeps us honest. If you need any other tips or if I didn't answer your question completely, please let me know. I'd be glad to help!
@0cctt0 (27)
7 Feb 08
thank you very much . now i know that honest is matter of primary importance
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@JJ4Ever (4696)
• United States
7 Feb 08
You're exactly right. Honesty is a great thing to have in a relationship. Great discussion!
• Barbados
9 Feb 08
First thing I think you should do is to see each other face to face so that you all cancome to some agreament and stop fooling around make some kind of arrangement and see what could happened
@goodsign (2287)
• Malaysia
5 Feb 08
It doesn't matter and not problem at all. Work hard for money, purchase one flight ticket and definitely you can meet her OR your girlfriend come to visit you at your place. LOVE without perfect financial planning for now and future is a wonky and a callow love. So, you are on the right track now, let you LOVE inspired and aspired you to work hard for money. Once you got it, right time and at the right place, definitely you can get and enjoy for your indulge. At least there is some thing for you to think and make new effort. A perfect everlasting love. Happy Postings and Earnings, 0cctt0. HAPPY DAPPY. p/s - HAPPY CHINESE NEW YEAR - February 7, 2008.
5 Feb 08
I am not totally sure what you are going through here. Do you suspect your girlfriend of being unfaithful to you? Of course, distance is always a huge obstacle in a relationship and can pull even seemingly strong bonds apart. You obviously need to talk with her. This is the only way to find out how she feels. You need to see if you can resolve the problems between you and work out something which will help your relationship work for both of you. And, of course, if it is to continue to be at a distance, you have to agree some ground rules while you are apart. You also have to plan regular visits to each other so you have something to look forward to. The main thing is to be honest with each other, and to stay calm. If it isn't going to work - sometimes we have to accept this. It is a very painful process, so you will have to draw on the support of friends and family who understand how you feel and will help you through it without trivialising your feelings. I wish you both luck God Bless
@catjane (1036)
• United States
5 Feb 08
I'm not sure what you are trying to say as it is a bit sketchy, but I think you are trying to ask how you maintain a relationship while living apart. It's not easy. If you have computers you can email each other, IM each other or talk on Cam. You can talk on the phone or text message on your cells. Try to work towards being together soon as long distance relationshps are very difficult and don't often work out. good luck!