Anger

@agfarm (930)
United States
February 10, 2008 9:38am CST
where does it get us..... Well for One...it's giving me one heck of a Migraine right now. It keeps me from addressing the real issues. I only have two.... All of my life I have been forced to ask permission for everything. My Anger is Intense , because .....I let it be so. Secondly....And I deeply miss my Dad. I'm angry at him , because..... He paseed away when I was 22 and left me to a world full of Chaos. I love my Mother , but she offers no real guidence. Sorry...I guess that's another issue. Anger....what has it done for you lately?
5 responses
@dbhattji (2507)
• India
11 Feb 08
Anger makes me feel guilty - when I get angry with someone and shout at them - I later feel guilty because what reight do I have to get angry? If at all we have to be angry - we should be angry with oneself - and ask ourselves why we do not improve.
@agfarm (930)
• United States
11 Feb 08
I'm with you on that ! Thanks
@dstrent (112)
• United States
10 Feb 08
I teach entry level students in the Marine Corps about combat. When I started doing this almost 3 years ago I had a lot of anger towards them when they didnt seem to care. Over the years I have learned that getting angry about it just led them to ignore me and not care that much more. Once I realized this I then began to be a mentor instead. By doing this and not getting angry they learned more and loved the Corps more.
@sygede (22)
• United States
10 Feb 08
well. i'm not sure if it called anger or what for me. now i'm working hard to transfer to a nive university, but there is all ways something that you cannot control. i do a bad grade last semester, and it is totally because of myself...also, i always tell myself to change a little and a litter to be better, but it is just not that easy. most things i just let it go without think carefully... i have anger to myself sometime... anyway, i still get another shot...i always tell myself now that i will not miss it and will do my best to fulfill my misson...i just hope everything goes will.
@mlhuff12 (799)
• United States
10 Feb 08
Anger does not get you anywhere. I think having anger gets you even more angrier. And possible it could spread to others around you. When angry you might do something that you may regret or hurt someone's feelings. I am a very timid and calm person. I do get angry at times, but I don't let it overcome myself. I deal with it in a calmly fashion.
@Linny1 (40)
10 Feb 08
Anger does nothing for anyone except make people feel badly, do & say things that are hurtfull to others..Your migraine headaches are a result of your anger..DO you live with your mother? If so, can you find some place of your own? Your Dad did not leave you because he wanted to, he had no choice Honey..It was just time for him to join God..You have to learn how to control your anger and anxiety.. A counselor can help you with these things...No kidding - I have gone to counselors and they helped learn to deal with my problems which actually help solve them.. I also believe there is power in prayer... Hope this helps...I would hate to think you will live your life filled with anger...