Have a problem :(

@twasting (195)
United States
February 12, 2008 11:07pm CST
OK lets start with my 16 year old son was going to Job Corps in KY. I thought it would be good for him. He had gotten into some trouble and could not go to school this year. So I did not want him to just lay on my couch for a year. I could not handle that chit. SO any way he went and How He is home at my house laying on the couch. Because he got into trouble again. LOTS OF TROUBLE. :( He got said that he broke into a building at Job corps (YEAH FEDERAL STUFF THERE) And doing some other things. Well any way He got 3 tickets and has to go to court in KY for them we live in Missouri. ( long way) ANd now Hubby is being a D**k to him. Worse then he ever has been, and hubby smokes weed in our house where we have 2 other little girls (I DONT SMOKE ANYTHING) what i want to know is: If my son gets mad enough at hubby and goes to the cops will i get into trouble also for the weed in our house and Maybe lose my other kids? PLEASE HELP about ready to cry cuz i can't lose my kids. HAVE A GREAT DAY/NIGHT
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@aseretdd (13709)
• Philippines
13 Feb 08
You will definitely get into trouble when the police finds out that your husband smokes weed in the house wher 2 little girls live... you can go to jail and lose your children... Another worst case here is that bad things might happen to your little kids since the father is under the influence of weeds... if you love your children and if you really care for them... do something right now before it is too late...
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@twasting (195)
• United States
13 Feb 08
The stuff is now out of my house HAVE A GREAT DAY/NIGHT
• United States
13 Feb 08
Yes you can lose your girls.I knew a couple that lost there little boy for smoking in front of him. They were great parents except for that.They got caught and it took them 6 months to get him back.I would be very carful of him smoking in your home.
@twasting (195)
• United States
13 Feb 08
Everything is out of my house as of now. And again if he will not stop then i will have no choice but to leave. CUZ I AM NOT LOSING MY GIRLS OVER SOMETHING SO STUPID. Thanks for you in put HAVE A GREAT DAY/NIGHT
@Chey1970 (1193)
• United States
13 Feb 08
Wow! Ok, I don't like getting into someone elses personal business.. So I will just answer the question part of this. If you know your hubby is smokin' weed in the house and your hubby gets busted in the house, or if your son reports that he is doing it around the girls.. Yes, you stand a chance of losing your girls, and also they will charge you with child endangerment.. For you knowing about it and not stopping it.
@twasting (195)
• United States
13 Feb 08
Thanks Chey and I don't want people all up in my personal business but i really dont have any where to turn. Hubby will not talk to me about anything. So if i can get people to help me out here then that is better then nothing. So again thanks HAVE A GREAT DAY/NIGHT
@LSweet51 (16)
• United States
13 Feb 08
Being 16 is a tuff age, but you have to do anything possible to assure your love for your son. Try an adult program school. It worked for my son when he refused to go to school at 14. Usually they get better individual attention at these shcools. There is tough love but your hubby should not be a d k head to him, that's showing your son that your hubby does not like him. Now, smoking pot is no big deal, but it is illeagal, so you must insist that your husband go outside, away from the children. Since you don't smoke I don't think the authorities can do anything to you, but if you allow your husband to smoke in front of the kids, they could say you are allowing your kids to be exposed to an unsafe envirement. So if you love your kids, the husband stops smoking or moves out!
@twasting (195)
• United States
13 Feb 08
Well we (Hubby and me) have a lot of problems in our marriage so this is just on top of everything. I am really waiting for one of my little girls Indain Money to get started. And once i start getting that. I am not sure what i am going to do here, but i know I can't live like this anymore. HAVE A GREAT DAY/NIGHT
@MrMalice (83)
• United States
13 Feb 08
Oh yes, you could lose the children. The unruley child and illegal substances in your house would be quick reasons to deem you an unfit mother and have child services knocking on your door. Not to mention that you knowling know that the weed is in your house so now you have obtained accomplise status. I pray to god you find some way to control this situation because you sound like a decent person in a tight spot. Be careful of your son and advice your husband to take the mary-jay away from the house.
@twasting (195)
• United States
13 Feb 08
he won't he says he paying for everything he don't have too. See i dont have a job and he does pay for everything. Man i dont know what to do I guess i will have to think about this long and hard. thanks HAVE A GREAT DAY/NIGHT