he doesnt listen!!

United States
February 13, 2008 1:13am CST
Okay so, I am going crazy. I really really like this new guy I am dating but, the guy can talk for hours. At first I thought it was just because he had alot to say but now I realized that if the conversation is not about him then he will interupt he to tell he something that just happened to him. OMG I am going crazy because I do care for him and I know that he likes me even more then I like him. I know that a relationship with him ont be a waste bu t if continues to be so god forsaken self centered in a phone conversation I am afraid I cant be in a relaionship with him. Also, i feel like he might be hiding something(that is what my instincts tell me). He is four years older then me and from the city.. He had a very haard life but, I just dont see why he needs to always be the center. what should I do because I dont want to give up on him. I already spoke to him about the whole situation and he basically ignored the whole thing because he didnt change.. Oh god IDK?? Help please.. (oh and our signs are so differnt and not made for each other I am a saggitarius and he is a capricorn...
2 responses
@danzer (2723)
• Philippines
13 Feb 08
If he is talking more than he listens, get away from him. He will not listen also when you will get married. God gave us two ears and one mouth to listen more and talking less!
• United States
13 Feb 08
omg thank you so much for your comment. I just have never been with or around a mna who was so eager to talk.. I dont get it..
• United States
13 Feb 08
omg thaks so much for the comment.. I dont understand why he does it though...
@subha12 (18441)
• India
13 Feb 08
i think he is a diff to cope with. it is very annoying with those persons who only talk but does not listen to others. they have some insecurity and always try to boost. they try to be in attention always. this can be very much annoying in life. better get away from it.