SWU Physical Therapist Fractured My Mom!

Singapore
February 14, 2008 2:34am CST
Hi mylot friends. I have been away for so long it's because I have been battling with life. Recently my mom suffered a Fractured Humerous. A fractured arm done by her Physical Therapist herself. I pity my mom for her situation right now because I know how much she wanted to recover on her physical health and yet this thing happened. Emotionally, mentally we are very exhausted. I have filed a case against the people involved. Those people never cared at all. Never returned my calls or even visit my mom in the hospital during her surgery. Just last week, part of her fractured bone where the screw was attached had been broken again. So the doc scheduled another surgery. ..But my mom after the 1st surgery, didn't have the appetite to eat anymore. And just last week stayed in the hospital for more than a week to recover from internal bleeding and Kidney infection. Things have been so bad with my mom...pls. help pray for her. I had plans of taking her with me in Singapore but now ,,I am so frustrated. I have created a short video for my mom with her recent condition and have posted it in my blog. www.fillmyheart.blogspot.com I need all your prayers friends...Thanks for reading..
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@Lakota12 (42794)
• United States
14 Feb 08
How awful I pray that she makes a full recovery. and yes I would sue them for breking her arm again!. prayes are with her and you that you get teh strength you need to carry on! hugs and blessing
• Singapore
14 Feb 08
They say my mom is old..she's 67...and it takes time for her healing process. The first fractured ,according to the doc had healed but the second one needs to be operated again. I just worry that my mom wouldn't be able to bear the second surgery again with her health right now. Strength and prayers...ya..that's all I need Lakota.. Thanks.
@Lakota12 (42794)
• United States
14 Feb 08
yea I just turn 68 this month. and yup they told me it took longer to heal for that fact and it did take longer for the holes to heal ovwer and if I hadnt got the nurse I had I would probably still have holes in my chest. now my shoulder needs an MRI for threpist said I should be alright by now but not Left shoulder now has a catch in it and hurts like heck when they strech me the wrong way to my thinking started with home therapist but has gotten worse. Enouh about me. still praying for you and your mom hugs
@Lakota12 (42794)
• United States
17 Feb 08
yes thats what MRI stand s for. and still waiting for an appointment for it to be done. they are slow . am praying still for your mom and that she gets better soon and you have a lovely blog thanks
@slickcut (8141)
• United States
14 Feb 08
Hi there, i knew you had been gone for awhile but did not know what happened..I know you have been very concerned for your mom,but had no idea what happened..I am so sorry to hear about your Mom..It was a poor therapist that broke your Moms arm, she has no business even being a therapist..Any unqualified therapist can do more harm than good...Please continue with your suit against that place that used that therapist,you have a very good case of neglect and physical abuse,don't let them get away with this..We will certainly pray for your mom,and please keep us posted on how she is....
• Singapore
14 Feb 08
I went back to cebu for a week..It was planned to be a fruitful one when I booked my ticket. Before this thing happened, I planned to take her to a restaurant and eat..or just have a real nice coffee somewhere. But then again, this happened. When I went back home, I slept with my mom in the hospital till I went off to the airport. I had no enough sleep and even haven't taken a shower that morning. All my things, I had to rearrange in the airport lobby. I just laughed at myself. Just so, before I went back I had filed a case with a lawyer. Those people involved in the case never really paid attention to us and even to my mom while she was in surgery . I asked the media's help,but still they ignored them. Thanks for the prayers slickcut. I will surely keep you posted. Pls. forward the video to your friends that it may help bring justice to my mom.
@slickcut (8141)
• United States
14 Feb 08
I would like to say i loved the Video of your mom But very sad at the out come..They turned a beautiful lady into a very sick lady..I will send your video around..Good luck to you dear....
• Singapore
18 Feb 08
Thanks Slickcut...I appreciate your big help just passing on the videos around..
@byfaithonly (10716)
• United States
14 Feb 08
Oh dear I will certainly be keeping you and your Mom in my prayers. Your video had me in tears - a beautiful lady so full of life but the horror she must be going through now with all of this.
• Singapore
14 Feb 08
The pain, physically that she's feeling right now is terrible. She sms me one time that she needed to sleep by just sitting on her chair. ..she lost her appetite for several days...cannot eat and sleep well. I just wish this will stop soon.. God is only my refuge right now.
@byfaithonly (10716)
• United States
14 Feb 08
I don't mean to be too nosey but how old is your mom?
• Singapore
14 Feb 08
She is 67 yrs.old now.
@cupid74 (11397)
• Pakistan
14 Feb 08
Dear Friend really sorry to hear about ur mom and incident with her its what u called Bad Luck or Fate sure we all pray for her healrh and wish she will recover son we alsp appreciate your concern about ur mom and time u r spending with her. Keep it up Best of Luck to u 2 Bye
• Singapore
14 Feb 08
Sometimes I thought of it as "bad luck" or a twist of fate...But then again, I still use it to learn a lesson . It's hard to keep it this way while I know others are enjoying life with their family and loved ones..and me..here I am ..struggling with my mom. Life indeed is strange. I don't know who else has got a bad or worse problems than I have. Sometimes I question God.. But I cannot blame Him all the time. It's painful..it hurts..but I have to take this one step at a time.
@cupid74 (11397)
• Pakistan
15 Feb 08
Dear Friend life is mixture of hardship and joy time never remain same if u r in bad patch then sure happy moments are waiting for U either its bad luck, or fate or whatever but u r in Situation and u have to deal with it and hey listen, God clearly says that he put burden on human which he can bear so i am sure its manageable just dont get tensed and work it out hope u got my point all my prayers and best wishes are for u and ur mom take care
• India
17 Feb 08
I pray for your mother. God will bless her and your family.
• Singapore
18 Feb 08
Thank you ganga,..
@Stephanie5 (2953)
• United States
15 Feb 08
Oh, I'm so sorry to hear about your and your mother's situations. That is horrible that she's going through so much! I know it must be so frustrating for you also. I will keep you both in my prayers. Keep us updated on how she's doing and send her all our love! God Bless you both! ~Stephanie
• Singapore
17 Feb 08
Thank you for your prayers Stephanie...I really just hope so my mom will stand strong inspite of what happened to her.... I know it's only emotionally and spiritually exhausting on my part but more on hers too. :(
@Ohara_1983 (4122)
• Kuwait
15 Feb 08
im so sorry to what happen to yur mom, my prayer for her & your family that she will get will soon. it not easy for her to travel now she still need rest. i this time you need to give her more time specially what happen to her in that mad therapish of her.
• Singapore
17 Feb 08
Thank you for your prayers Ohara..With her condition right now, there's no way that I can bring her here in singapore...It's sad..Maybe it will take time. I have tried to give her my time as much as I wanted. When I went back to Cebu, I spent all my vacation days with her in the hospital. But with the situation that I am in, the debts that the deaths of my sis and my dad had left me, I have no choice but to continue to work here abroad to pay all those. Some people are blessed enough to be with their family and not go anywhere else for money. I just hope everyone here will come to realise how important it is to be with our loved ones...and if we have the time on our hand spend it with them for we never know what will happen. I am still standing tall inspite of my situation. Jesus is lifting me up. Thanks for dropping by.
@williamjisir (22909)
• China
14 Feb 08
Hello dinxcarin. I am so sorry that your mom is suffering a lot physically and mentally. I hope that she will be recovered soon with the help of the doctors and yours as well. May she enjoy her healthy life again soon. Please give my best regards to your mom. Take care.
• Singapore
14 Feb 08
Yes william,,I would send your regards to my mom..if you want to sms her to give encouragements and emotional support, pls. let me know and I will give you her celphone number. She is about to be scheduled on her second surgery maybe after she stabilises her health. Thanks for dropping by...
@lynnchua (3416)
• Singapore
14 Feb 08
Hi dinxcarin, I'll pray for her. Don't worry I think she will be fine.
• Singapore
14 Feb 08
Hope she will be fine soon...Thanks for dropping by lynnchua,