What is the preferrable age for a partner to get married?

Philippines
February 14, 2008 9:18am CST
Is 22 ok for marriage? I was thinking I wanna marry the girl of my dreams at an early age but I don't wanna start a family yet. Just the two of us at the moment. But sometimes I feel like ,well more of a doubt with a married life coz I'm enjoying a life being single. But then again I want to experience how it is to have a real partner... for good. Hey I'm not what you think I am! What I mean is I want to commit that's all.
5 responses
• Philippines
17 Feb 08
Hi makouvex! well 22 is a-ok age to get married - for as long as you know exactly what marriage is really all about. I am 26 and me and my significant other has already been together for almost 5 years now. A lot of people are pushing us to get married already but then again we dont let pressure get into us, coz marriage is not a joke, its a lifetime status. it is something serious. A friend told me this rule of thumb: if you have .9999 doubt on idea of getting married --- dont get married. =)
@jdeforge (224)
• United States
25 Feb 08
After 5 years if you're not sure, don't you think you may never be? Part of me feels if you wait to long you get too comfortable in what you already have and don't think its worth the risk You cannot wait to have 0 doubt when it comes to marriage, if you take marriage seriously, you'll ALWAYS have doubts. Great to hear you don't let the pressure get to you, thats seriously a hard thing to deal with.
• United States
20 Feb 08
I think it depends on whether or not the two of you are ready for marriage. It can have its ups and downs or just not work out! Have the two of you been living together? Sometimes living with someone helps give you a better idea of what married life could be. Communication is really important, if you have these thoughts, are you sure she is ready to commit to you? You need to speak with her about these possibilities and work it out. Good luck!
@chrysz (1602)
• Philippines
14 Feb 08
I agree that you don't have to get married just to be committed though its true that you could only get to know the person better if you are living together and you have seen her worst and best self. I am not advising you that consider cohabitation or living in coz if you are really to marry her, then do it and make a plan for birth control so that you can avoid having a baby sooner than you want it. There are lots of ways now that might be suitable for you and your beliefs. There's no particular age for marriage, it all depends on the person's maturity - emotionally, spiritually, psychologically and finacially. According to some laws, you can marry as early as 18 so you must check that too but if you'll ask me, its better if you ask yourself if you are to give up your being single just to be with your love 24/7.
• Philippines
14 Feb 08
if i were to choose, i think age 25 is the best age to get married.. but of course it also depends on the couple's maturity level if they can already handle a lifelong relationship and the responsibility of raising a family of their own.. age is just a number, what's important is their ability to create a new basic unit of society..
@sophialin (2677)
• China
17 Feb 08
hello,firstly, i should congratulate you to find a partner who causes u the idea of marriage. after all, many of us even don't have boy/girl friend.everyone would marry another,earlier or later. the key point is once u marry, u should give up much,such as the single life,and take up much. so think over,it has nothing to do with your age. just ask yourself: am i ready?