When doing unresolved discussions!!!

United States
February 14, 2008 11:33am CST
Ok I have gone through some on my unresolved discussions on advice off my own friend who is currently doing hers. While upon doing hers she was going over the discussions and found herself getting quite ticked off all over again at certain conversations. LOL!! So my question to you is have you reread discussions to make them resolved and found yourself getting angered all over again?
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@elitess (5072)
• Ipswich, England
20 Jun 08
I haven't managed to do this yet, because i had no hot contradictory topics open. I had one response i think where the responder was a bit mean, but i don't take it personally, because we are here to debate, not to argue, and there was no point in getting into a fight with her over something that eventually was cleared out on peaceful ways.
• United States
20 Jun 08
Wait till you hit more controversial subjects. LOL!! I have a discussion about Christmas in schools and it has nothing to do with religion yet somehow everyone turned it into that .. My discussion was more along the play and the concerts that they put on. LOL!! and they had more to do with a fat man in a red suit with some reindeer. LOL!!!
@novataylor (6572)
• United States
15 Feb 08
After reading one of your answers here Bella, I'm so glad that I don't have as many pages as you! But I have gone through mine, only just recently, and tried to choose best responses, which can be really hard to do. I got through a lot of them, but I'm not finished yet. Eh, I'll get back to them eventually. No big hurry.
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• United States
15 Feb 08
I did some yesterday and I'm continueing to do some today. LOL!! I'm never going to finish this mess. LOL!!!
@Lindalinda (4112)
• Canada
15 Feb 08
I don't post many discussion, mostly I respond. From time to time I do resolve my discussions and if there are comments that I don't like I just ignore them, after all this is a discussion forum and everyone is entitled to their opinion. I don't like abusive people though that call other people names.
• United States
15 Feb 08
here here right with you on that front.. I like to be laid back and have fun...Not engage in fights, but I will engage in a good debate. LOL!!!
@TerryZ (22083)
• United States
15 Feb 08
Hi bellaofchaos! Yes this has happened to me a couple of times when going through some of my old discussions. But you know what? Its not worth it. If someone gets me mad I just move on and leave it blank.LOL
• United States
15 Feb 08
I'm with you TerryZ just move on no need to let them get our goat .. LOL!! Thanks for the response and it was nice to see you and your puppy on my page have a nice day hun.
@Sissygrl (10915)
• Canada
15 Feb 08
I dont let stuff that is said here anger me very often! and i dont think that any of my discussions have been able to do just that lately. Im keeping it pretty laid back ;) Also i dont let my unresolves get outta hand! lol when its been a couple of days since someone has responded to something, then i choose one. or if its a really good response i choose it right away as i'm reading! I can't think of that many discussions that will interest other people, so i dont make a whole lot. I like to answer them better ayways ;)
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• United States
15 Feb 08
I think i do better at times doing the starting of discussions. LOL!! but I do like to go out ans answer some discussions. LOL!! I would have to say that I have done a 50/50 so far. LOL!!!
@mummymo (23707)
14 Feb 08
Oh yes but then again there are the ones that have you laughing til you cry again! I love doing this but I like to leave them for a while to make sure I don't just hand out br to the first response! xxx
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• United States
14 Feb 08
I know what you mean about not wanting to hand out best response to the firdt person who answers.. Happy Valentines day Hun.
@skinnychick (6907)
• United States
14 Feb 08
Wow I probably should do that at some point, I went on a posting frenzy for a day or two.. But I have reread some discussions and gotten riled all over again, I figure at that point I probably should just let them go.
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• United States
14 Feb 08
I'll have to agree with you on the pass them by and let them go ... LOL!! good luck when you decide to take care of your unresolved discussions.
• United States
14 Feb 08
You are sooo lucky I love you. And yes of course you know that I do. I just got done ranting your ear off over some people and their stupidity! I had to take a break. I have to go to the store anyway but heaven help someone who crosses my war path today. LOL
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• United States
14 Feb 08
I know I know.. Well when someone crosses your war path I'll make sure that you don't kill them that way you don't end up behind bars .. LOL!! I know it's been one of those love days with rating and picking best responses I'm kinda getting tired of it. Have fun with your break. LOL!!
@raijin (10373)
• Philippines
14 Feb 08
There are times that I did, especially when I wasn't that much paying attention in resolving my discussions back then. There are times that I get annoyed and sometimes laugh at them also, but the anger are just for that moment as I wonder what caused that supposed-to-be good-natured discussion to a nasty one. I just think of it as part of the game and for just that very moment, I came here to make friends and not to make enemies with others..
• United States
14 Feb 08
YOu are absolutely correct with statement we came here to make friends not enemies and it is kinda weird when you look back and think what the heck went wrong here. LOL!! Have a nice one.
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@kykidd (6819)
• United States
14 Feb 08
I have done this. I asked a positive quesiton asking what good items people have found and this one person only posted bad items of the category. And when I reworded the question and asked this to this person individually again they went off on a negative rampage. Then there are some discussions that I can't find a response well enough to mark as the best response. LOL
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• United States
14 Feb 08
i know what you mean there are discussions where it's hard to pick because either they aren't on the topic or there is only one response or there are to many that are close to eachother and therefore hard to pick a good response.