Divorce?????

@lynnchua (3416)
Singapore
February 15, 2008 11:25pm CST
Why is it why you are marrying someone and you say "till death do us part" and when realtionship turn sour you say 'divorce' is the only option?
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@cupid74 (11397)
• Pakistan
16 Feb 08
Hi Lynn very true its impatience at end that u love when u r friends but when u r married things getting worse its really dangerous rate at which divorce rate is increasing day by day i am sure little patience, little compromise on both end can not only save this beautiful relation but can make it more lovely take care
@lynnchua (3416)
• Singapore
16 Feb 08
Thanx cupid, for your response. Its true that divorcing rate increase a lot day by day and what you said is true.
@cupid74 (11397)
• Pakistan
16 Feb 08
thanks for agreeing take care
@wjolene (265)
• Malaysia
16 Feb 08
no more love crisis involves money family disagreement mistress married too young
16 Feb 08
do u know when the lovers talk about money````their relationship changed``` they would quarrel about sth trifling```````````many people still love each other but their character is difficult to adapt to
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@VAnnasamy (426)
• India
16 Feb 08
Seeking DIVORCE is nothing but to DIE WORSE...
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• Philippines
16 Feb 08
divorce is really devastating. not only to the husband and wife... but most especially to the kids. i cannot say that the two weren't really inlove. maybe they just failed to oversee things that could possibly be the cause of a misunderstanding. and even if they did acknowledge the fact that there'll be times when they won't agree -- they have to commit to work on it. compromise. compromise. compromise. some people are just very compulsive. when they want something, they just do it. "honey let's go to vegas and let's get married." very easy to say, but when the time comes that the marriage would need a major attention -- one or both of them gets uneasy. divorce is not really an option. when you two are still dating, you should talk things over. like what you two would do during times of hardships in a marriage. for married couples, i guess the best thing to do is to sit together and recall the promise you once made. u would be ashamed to find out that you haven't been keeping half of the promises you made to your partner. but there are situations, when it just won't really work. most especially if the relationship has gone one way. meaning -- you are the only one who wants to make the marriage work and you're not getting any effort from your partner. that's pointless.
@lynnchua (3416)
• Singapore
16 Feb 08
Hi loudhummer, you are right about it sometime people do not look deep into it. They just get married when they feel like it or they wanted to and they thought married involve only the two of them, but the truth is its involved the two family.
@albert2412 (1782)
• United States
16 Feb 08
We should not try to divorce our mate just because we not not love them. Marriage is not about loving someone, it is about commitment. the bible says that when two people get married they become one person and are no longer two people. Your mate is your mate for life. We need to realize this fact and try to get along cwith our mate and to put God first in our lives. Albert
@albert2412 (1782)
• United States
16 Feb 08
We should not try to divorce our mate just because we not not love them. Marriage is not about loving someone, it is about commitment. the bible says that when two people get married they become one person and are no longer two people. Your mate is your mate for life. We need to realize this fact and try to get along cwith our mate and to put God first in our lives. Albert
• India
16 Feb 08
u said it absolutely rt dear when we are bf n gf then also we say that after marriage we will do this n that will never fight even if we fight we would controll ourselves but once the marriage ceremonies are done the same moments after the honeymoon peroid is off the problems occur n the do or die thing for eachother vanishes it happens dear but what would u call this a guy n a girl havent got married since 8 yrs have been living in a realationship since then they have seen bad times n good times in this time n they have not been into a ceremony yet because the girls mother hasnest agreed just because the guy is not of the religion do u think that this girl or the boy would ever say this
@subha12 (18463)
• India
16 Feb 08
i think its the life. in love everything seems so colourful. then after people settle down, all those things taht are associated with life come into play. then you start to think that it is not bearable. at a point of time the limits break and peopel think divorce is only soloution.
• United States
16 Feb 08
Because its against the law to kill them!!...LOL...