Who do you miss right now?

@lextoper (573)
Philippines
February 16, 2008 11:16am CST
I miss my girlfriend so much. Its been already more than five months since she went outside the country for work. I can't take her out of my mind and has this paranoia thing which they say a natural emotion for a long distance relationship. This coming May 14 is our 5th year anniversary and that makes me miss her more. I can't wait to see her and when that day comes, I will surely give all my time to her because she will just have to stay here for 1 month. How about you? do you have someone that you miss? a friend, friends, love one's, family, or anyone which is part of you and a miles away apart? please share it to us.
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@asgtswife04 (2475)
• United States
16 Feb 08
I miss my husband SO BAD right now. he's in the Army and is overseas and has been gone since last June. Sometimes it absolutely kills me to be away from him so much, even though I am so proud of him for serving his country. We have been married for four years and two of it he's been gone. It's awful at times, but it keeps us strong and keeps us closer to. Weird I know, but for some reason we grow closer to one another with each deployment. I'll just be glad when this one is over. I'm counting down the days until he is once again home and in my arms again. thanks for sharing and i'm sorry your missing her so bad right now. I feel your pain. God bless
@lextoper (573)
• Philippines
17 Feb 08
I think we have the same situation there and I also feel your pain. In your part, you are married and he need to go there to support his family. Just keep your communication constant and lively. Trust him and be trusted. God bless...
• United States
17 Feb 08
Definitely and God bless you too!
@vanities (11395)
• Davao, Philippines
17 Feb 08
miss someone?/ maybe unconsciously my father..hes been away for so long and i dont know if hes coming back..no communications whatsoever ..i just pray for him always for good health and wisdom for whatever undertakings he had done ..
@lextoper (573)
• Philippines
17 Feb 08
Why unconsciously? well, its not easy to live without a father and a mother of course either of them. My parents broke up when i was still young and we are very affected. You might not know it but you surely miss him and good thing you keep praying for him. God bless.
• Philippines
16 Feb 08
Your girlfriend is so lucky to have someone like you. Me I miss my sister she's a nurse in the arab country. We don't live together but I still miss her just the same. I wish she can come home soon. I am scared for her working there.
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@lextoper (573)
• Philippines
17 Feb 08
No, I am bless that I have her. She made me complete and she gave me direction. I love her very much and can't imagine my self losing her... Yes, it is scary out there. Why did she take that job? well, maybe the offer is high and the place is not that scary:) God bless...
@pinay81 (1535)
• Philippines
17 Feb 08
for me i really missed my husband its almost 2 1/2 yrs we been apart because im working overseas and hes in philippines and also my bestfriend she is france now and we only chat when we have both time we been 5yrs apart now:-(
@lextoper (573)
• Philippines
21 Mar 08
that so sad... you've been apart for 2 1/2 years? well, if it is for good their is nothing to worry. Just keep in touch to your family. It is now easy to communicate with them right?:)
• Philippines
17 Feb 08
I miss my college life. the carefree - i do not care about tomorrow kind of life. I miss my college friends - those that are true and honest about what they feel and think. I miss the simple life way back then.
@lextoper (573)
• Philippines
17 Feb 08
I miss it too... but we need to move on and let go of our past. Though it made us who we are right now, but if we keep on holding on to it their will be no growth and we will live our life miserable. God bless...
• Philippines
18 Feb 08
I agree with you lex, its just a sentimental thought! =) one should always look to the miles up ahead anyway. it was so sweet of you to miss your gf. I hope you'll be with her the soonest. God bless you both.
@msanin (131)
• Canada
17 Feb 08
i miss my parents like crazy, its being almost 6 years since i moved Canada and they stayed in their home country.. is really painful to be away from ur parents, especially when you are growing up because thats when you need them more.. i just keep hoping for them to be here soon, i don't want to spend more time without them.. is really hard to see them only for 1 month or something because when they are leaving or i'm leaving is a pain you can't control when is the time to say BYE ... that is why i say to everybody that don't care about their families to love them as much as they can because you don't know when they can be away.. every human needs someone to take care of him/her in a parent way ..
@lextoper (573)
• Philippines
17 Feb 08
I totally agree with you msanin. We need to give importance to our family because they are the foundation of our beings. God bless...
@diancute (111)
• Indonesia
17 Feb 08
i miss my husband so much. he's working outside the city and this is the very first time he's been so far away. does he think of me too? i think yes lol. i think you're right lextoper, give all your time and attention to her, treat her right. good luck.
@lextoper (573)
• Philippines
17 Feb 08
His miss you of course... how long will he'll be working there? Don't you have want to transfer there so that you would not be missing him again? Well, it is all up to you and I know their are a lot to consider when you transfer there. Just keep your communication alive. God bless...
@cokyjazz (429)
• Australia
17 Feb 08
I miss my dad more than anything.He passed away 7 years ago now but those years doesnt help the pain of his loss to fade.He missed my wedding and seeing his 3 grandchildren grow(2 of which he never met).We spoke to one another like best friends and there have been so many times that i have needed to talk to him. I hope May comes very fast for you.
@lextoper (573)
• Philippines
17 Feb 08
It's been so long since he passed and I know that the memories still there. Pray and pray for him always. God bless.
• Philippines
17 Feb 08
I super miss my bestfriend. She is now based in London. Though we get to communicate with each other as frequent as we could, there are times when she gets really very busy. That is why there are also times that we don't get to chat with each other. She comes home to the Philippines at least once a year. She said she'll be coming home this year but not yet sure about the date. I really miss her very much.
@lextoper (573)
• Philippines
17 Feb 08
You're such a good friend dolce_vita78. Hoping someday I can find a friend someone like you. Regards to your bestfriend and God bless...
• India
17 Feb 08
I too missed my girlfriend.We meet 1 month back and this valentine, I felt so much alone.But still, I am waiting for the days,when i'll be with her again. -AV
@lextoper (573)
• Philippines
17 Feb 08
Good thing you spent your valentines with her. It is not that hard to be far away from your girlfriend and I based it on what I feel now:( God bless.
• United States
17 Feb 08
I miss my best friend Connie. We are no longer friends like we used to be but we were so close that I still miss her. The friendship we had took years in the making. I don't know if i would ever have someone that close on earth again. Darn, it hurts just thinking about it :(
@lextoper (573)
• Philippines
17 Feb 08
Why don't you try calling her? One of you must lower down your pride and save friendship. Their is nothing to loss but their is something to save. Take care and God bless...
16 Feb 08
I miss my ex-gf far too much...the pain is actually intolerable. She was the one to broke off on our second year aniversary...the friendship day. I love her alot...still hope that she'll be back...Want to share alot of things with her.
@lextoper (573)
• Philippines
17 Feb 08
Well, that's kinda hurt man... just keep your friendship alive and be there in times when she need a crying shoulder. Take care of her always and don't stop loving her despite the fact that your relationship is just a friend. Let her see and feel that you have change and love her still. Court her again. For sure, you'll be back together again. God bless...
@bruceli (23)
• China
17 Feb 08
I miss my girlfriend too. We live in the differnt cities. We are in the same college, but not in the same department. We have to back home respectively on the winter holiday. We love each other. She asked me if I could meet her on Feb. 14. I said:"I can!" As a result, I didn't come to see her as there was an important thing I had to do. So I want to say sorry to her.
@lextoper (573)
• Philippines
17 Feb 08
Oh... thats so sad... you've promise her but then you didn't come. How important it is that you missed seeing her on a very special day of the heart? did she know it? hope everything will be alright. God bless...
• United States
17 Feb 08
i miss my boyfriend. hes the best thing that ever happend to meeh. him & i have our issues but we get over them like any other thing ! we've been together since oct/9th 2006 and i love him with all my heart..we are having some problems right now and he feels that he will talk to me when he is ready..friday 2/15 he said he was ready to talk to meeh again ! i dont really call it breaking up , i just call it ..SPACE AWAY FROM EACH OTHER !!! but i dont know..he claims he loves meeh , but if im in love too, i guess i have no other choice but to believe it !! -Brittney
@lextoper (573)
• Philippines
17 Feb 08
Well, I don't know what is the real story behind but for sure, everything will be alright because you love each other. That is a good strategy, giving space first and let each other be calm so that everything can be easily talk about and fix. God bless...
@jal1948 (1359)
• India
21 Feb 08
missing someone you love is a natural phenamenon and you should try to keep yourself busy in activities that can help you grow physically , emotionally,and mentally.
@candytang (341)
• China
19 Feb 08
At now,I miss my parents very much ,for I have left home for a long time and didn't come back home last year yet .
• United States
17 Feb 08
Right now I am sitting here on this computer really missing the love of my life Deandre Robbins. Though we have not been together long it feels like eternity. I miss him so much because he is like a million miles away from me at college. So this super hard for me because I have to put all my trust in him tonot cheat on him and to work on opening up to me. I love him so much and this is something that I feel in the future will bring us closer. So that is who I am missing dearly right now.
• Philippines
21 Feb 08
I miss my husband, he is working outside the country too. While your anniversary on the 14th of May, ours will be on May 12, 10th year wedding anniversary. He said he'll be back before our anniversary comes, and be staying only for a month. So short time, what do u plan to do together when your gf back? Hope you'll have great time on that day.
• United States
18 Feb 08
Hello lextoper. How are you doing today? Right now I really miss my grandfather. He pasted away 4 years ago on December 8, 2003. I shared a lot of memories with him. He had road rage and I think that I have inherited this from him. He was a great listener and spoke his mind freely whether it hurt you are not. My grandfather was strong, he was my father figure. Sometimes I feel like being selfish if I could turn back the hands of time then I would so that he could have lived one year longer. I understand that his body was tired andhe needed to rest but now that he is gone I have no one to talk to. No one to laugh with. I am all alone.
19 Feb 08
hello my frind. i have just joined this community. right now i am missing my love. on 12th of this month our love became 3 yrs old. this time i was not with her. she called me & cried. i just tell her 1 thing that let get through these days of difficulties & wait for the moment when i will be doing some thing & will come to ur home proudly & ask ur father to merry u. thats the story so far