What one trait would you change about your spouse/boyfriend?

United States
February 18, 2008 8:50pm CST
I love my hubby dearly, but he has the worst habit of micromanaging everything! He has to have his hand in anything that goes on. He thinks he is the only one who can do things correctly, so this is what I would change about him.
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@asgtswife04 (2482)
• United States
19 Feb 08
I have to say my husband's worst habit is getting up in the mornings and instead of going to the bathroom, he goes to pee outside. absolutely drives me crazy. he got used to doing that in iraq when all the porta potties were in use and then did it at home. i was always like, you know we do have a bathroom in this house. LOL! he has gotten better at it, but unfortunately he's back in iraq so i guess i'll have to break him of it again when he gets home. LOL! he would be mortified if i told people that to. anyways, thanks for sharing and God bless
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• Australia
22 Feb 08
LMBO!!! Oh, that's hilarious, I'm sorry! I would love to see your neighbors face if they caught him doing this. It works if you have a neighbor you hate however ;-P
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• United States
23 Feb 08
LOL! I know, i would love to see my neighbors faces to and actually i don't like the neighbors next door. LOL! thanks and God bless
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@fengxg22 (51)
• China
20 Feb 08
The vorst habit can be resolved by love.More care and more understanding can help each one change their bad habit.I think you can resolve this question.
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• Australia
22 Feb 08
What, are you living in the Brady Bunch? Life is not that easy. Sure, love takes you a long way but in the world we live in, it doesn't change everything...Sorry!
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@skinnychick (6937)
• United States
24 Feb 08
For the first time ever I can say nothing. I would change not one thing about my boyfriend at all. I have found out the hard way in the past that changing people isn't going to work at all. So I set out to find that one who I never would want to change. Habits and quirks are just part of him and people in general. I guess I'm really lucky or have a lot of patience. :)
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• Australia
22 Feb 08
My husband is the same way and it can get annoying but that's not what I would change about him ;-P What I would change is his lack of taking charge as far as the bills, religous things and other important things are concerned. He tends to procrastinate and shrug things off like they can wait and they are no big deal. It's just so stressful because then I have to sort things out and make sure we don't get into trouble or something like that. It's a real pain in the butt...
@Swaana (1208)
• India
19 Feb 08
I would really like him to see that family is much more important than anything else and his family especially kids needs his support when we all, I mean his brother's families, meet together. His kids always like him to take their sides which he never does. I would like to change that attitude of his if possible.
@joy_03 (26)
• Philippines
19 Feb 08
being hard headed and hot tempered, my partner easily get mad and i am really being so afraid to come closer.
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@unloved (73)
• Philippines
19 Feb 08
i would change my girlfriends being insensitive, we are really having fight about his issues.
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@punlonnjack (1309)
• United States
19 Feb 08
i would change my husbands temper.he doesnt get mad very often but when he does omg...he doesnt abuse me or anything like that.its usually when he gets mad at other prople sometimes it can be embarrassing.when he yells or cusses at other people.he doesnt realize how imature he is acting even if he has good cause to be mad. other then that i wouldnt change anything else.thanks for letting me share.
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• Philippines
19 Feb 08
If there's one thing that I would change about my boyfriend.. It would be his attitude towards time. There are instances when he is always late. When you talk to him about his frequent tardiness he gets too defensive.
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