How does it feel to have someone seriously beside you all the time?

United States
February 18, 2008 10:43pm CST
I do not have any serious relationships before. I am already 20 and I want to experience that already!
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11 responses
@DBabbit (42)
• United States
19 Feb 08
How does it feel? When it's the right one, you share everything - sometimes, even the toothbrush. Planning on living together? Forget privacy. Have something you really want to do? You'll have to discuss it with the "Sig. Other." Feel like really connecting? Be prepared to compromise on just about everything. You'll have to deal with the Sig. Other's moods, as well as your own. Other than that, it is a wonderful thing. :) Don't forget you are an individual, don't give up your friends, and do things separately to maintain your identity.
• United States
19 Feb 08
Im 23 with a daughter, and still never got a great experience yet myself.
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@subha12 (18441)
• India
20 Feb 08
it is really nice to have some. that person musty be trust worthy. that person must be there beside you all the times when you need him. i think its raelly nice to know somebody is there beside you.
@goodsign (2287)
• Malaysia
19 Feb 08
Don't worry, it is not problem at all and you've mentioned that you want to experience this kind of world, so get prepare physically and mentally. Every action, there will be reaction. So, you must accept the beauty and the awful of it. The happiness and sadness, must be tough enough to face all this kind of new world to you. Yeah, hopefully you can do it, peacefully and harmony.
@goodsign (2287)
• Malaysia
19 Feb 08
Don't worry, it is not problem at all and you've mentioned that you want to experience this kind of world, so get prepare physically and mentally. Every action, there will be reaction. So, you must accept the beauty and the awful of it. The happiness and sadness, must be tough enough to face all this kind of new world to you. Yeah, hopefully you can do it, peacefully and harmony.
@IceMagi2 (102)
• United States
19 Feb 08
I know the feeling I am just now turning 20 and I feel the same way. But I also think that it is better to explore life and see what's out there instead of tying yourself down so soon.
@eunixia (387)
• Philippines
19 Feb 08
hi rhyne, I'm happy and secured all the time. I want to be pampered and loved everyday and every minute. That's all I the feel when my special someome besides me always. it's me, eunixia
• Canada
19 Feb 08
How does it feel...well if the relationship is healthy, strong and mutually satisfying it feels great. If it is controlling, manipulative, unhealthy...then it feels AWFUL. I am happily married to my life and business partner and we live and work from home and spend a lot of time together. Our relationship works because we have respect for each other...and do give each other space when we need it. We handle differences as they come up and are willing to be accountable when either one of us is out of line. We live with the idea that in openness there is trust...and in trust there is love. We work as life coaches and group leaders and assist others in developing healthy relationships where both partners thrive rather than just survive. I must say though any meaningful relationship takes a lot of self-honesty and a measure of independence. The best way to attract a healthy relationship is to have a healthy relationship with yourself first. No one can ever fill us up if we feel empty on the inside...that is our work to do. So that is what it feels like...from my perspective. Raia
@goodsign (2287)
• Malaysia
19 Feb 08
Don't worry, it is not problem at all and you've mentioned that you want to experience this kind of world, so get prepare physically and mentally. Every action, there will be reaction. So, you must accept the beauty and the awful of it. The happiness and sadness, must be tough enough to face all this kind of new world to you. Yeah, hopefully you can do it, peacefully and harmony.
@unloved (72)
• Philippines
19 Feb 08
maybe people arond you dont see you being serious, its a matter of perspective, and besides you are still young you will find it soon. It was really greaqt to have someone beside you all the time but ut was depressing when he/she left you. you should know how to deal with it
@unloved (72)
• Philippines
19 Feb 08
maybe people arond you dont see you being serious, its a matter of perspective, and besides you are still young you will find it soon. It was really greaqt to have someone beside you all the time but it was depressing when he/she left you. you should know how to deal with it