I am relieved

United States
February 23, 2008 2:16pm CST
You all will problem think I am nuts when you get reading this but I have to say this. First I have to give a short back story. I lost contact with my little brother for about 10 years. Will we saw each other first the first time about a year ago When I meet his wife the first time there was something about her that I just did not like I could not put my finger on it she said nothing or did nothing "wrong", but I just could not shack the filling. I thought I was going nuts, until this morning. When he called and told me he kicked her out because he found out she was cheating on him. He was not sure how long it has been going on but it has going for a while now. I felt so sorry for him. but I was relieved because she did do something wrong, maybe she was cheating on him all this time maybe my gut was tilling me and I just was not listening fully. I kind of fill bad for being relieved when my little brother is going though this. I even fill a little more relieved then sorry for my brother. So am I nuts for filling this way? What do you think?
3 responses
@gemini_rose (16194)
23 Feb 08
I think that deep within us we all have a feeling to tune into others and pick up vibes off of them, we just do not always realise what it is and how to tune into it. Sometimes I can meet a person and instantly know if I like them or if there is just something about them that I cant quite put my finger on. Over the years through valuable lessons I have now learnt to trust this feeling. You have probably picked up on this with her and had the feeling of something not being quite right but just not being able to tune into it, I call it a gut feeling and usually they are right!! So no you are not nuts at all and at least your brother found out and you do not have to keep facing her knowing that you dont like her, and you know that your instinct about her was right first time. Always listen to what your gut tells you, you do not have to act on it straight away because there are times when it might be wrong, but most of the time it is right!!!
• United States
24 Feb 08
I am so glad that I am not the only one that have these fillings, I have them all the time with my kids, but I just thought it was a mom thing I know to listen to my gut when it comes to the kids I guess I need to start listening to it about everything.
• United States
23 Feb 08
We all have these feelings every now and than for no apparent reason what so ever. I hate it when my mom has these feelings when I bring home a guy for her to meet. Because she always ends up being right about him in the long run. I should really start to listen to her when she tells me these things. And even though your brother is hurting he is now better off. And of course you would feel relieved now you know you just weren't being paranoid about this woman. She really was a bad person. My only suggestion to you though would be if you ever have that feelings again you should tell the other person how your feeling. We have natural instincts and you should go on them more often. Don't think that your crazy or nuts for the gut feelings that you get. Cause in my experience them feelings are usually right.
• United States
24 Feb 08
I really think that I need to start listening to those feeling when they come up.
@dizzblnd (3073)
• United States
23 Feb 08
I don't think you are nuts for feeling the way you do. The feeling of relief may not be because you were right about her. It may be a feeling of satisfaction that your higher self was correct and your ability to read her was right on the mark. Now if you can learn to hone those feelings, and recognize them when they come on, you may be able to nip bad things in the bud before they start, or embrace the good that is coming before it even happens. I am glad to hear he didn't let his pride take over his heart as was able to get rid of her before she could hurt him again. The feeling of releif is also, quite possibly, because you love your brother and don't want to see him in an unhealthy relationship
• United States
24 Feb 08
I am so relieved that i am not losseing my mind.