I would like to get married one day...

United States
February 25, 2008 5:01pm CST
Yeah, in a relationship right now that is kindof rocky right due to the fact that neither of us have jobs, and have a 9 month old baby. We are engaged...I guess, he did propose, but I got pissed at him one night for talking to his ex behind my back telling her that he feels like he is drifting away from me...well basically it has kindof gone down hill since, and hasnt really gotten any better....now he is moving back to Arlington, and I am staying here in Dallas with no where to go but my moms with my son. This would be the 3rd time I have been engaged...blah
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breepeace
@breepeace (3014)
• Canada
25 Feb 08
I understand where you're coming from since I was there once myself. You have to ask yourself if you really want to be married because you love this man, and he loves you and you have a wonderful relationship that is committed to the level that a marriage is or if it's because you want the security and title of being a wife and married woman. I realized it was the latter and that I wasn't really happy with my ex, I was just happy to settle. I had to take a good hard look at our relationship and him before I finally came to terms with what should have been so obvious.