As i can forget to my ex-boyfriend?

@gmms08 (16)
Costa Rica
February 25, 2008 5:11pm CST
What i can make to forget to the love of my whole life? That love is very far from me and i am married with another man whom loves to me and master takes care of much but i to me to him not it. I need an advice.
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6 responses
@asgtswife04 (2482)
• United States
26 Feb 08
It sounds to me like maybe you shouldn't have married this man you are married to now. If you weren't over your other love, then to marry someone else and not being able to truly love them should never have taken place. You need to really think and search yourself to determine whether or not you could ever truly love this person you are with before you do anything that would cause hurt in the relationship. i'm sorry that it didn't work out for you and your love, but maybe instead of marrying someone you should have just taken some time for yourself. that is what you needed to let go of the past. good luck and God bless
@gmms08 (16)
• Costa Rica
27 Feb 08
Thanks for its advice, i like to much.
• United States
27 Feb 08
you are quite welcome! God bless
@subha12 (18463)
• India
6 Mar 08
i think the way you are asking, you are not able to write him off. its very difficult indeed when you have loved somebody so dearly. what can be done now. keep that memories to you. think those are the treasures left.
@Hatley (154817)
• Garden Grove, California
27 Feb 08
It sounds as though the man you married was more of a protector than someone you really loved ,and you probably turned to him because he loved you looking for solace from your lost love. You should search your heart because this does not sound fair to me, marrying without love because your heart will always be with that first love. I mean its not fair to either of you. your husband sounds like a decent man but just being taken care of does not sound like it is enough for you. Could you find the love of your life and explain to your husband what a mistake you made? Anyway you do someone will ultimately be hurt and thats probably not something you can avoid. But if you truly do not love your now husband it will probably not get any better. Your love cannot be two places at once really.
@subha12 (18463)
• India
27 Feb 08
Its really hard to forget someone who was once very close with you. But to minimize the pains its always better to keep attention away from that person. try to engage yourself in some activities that make you happy.Do more work and take responsibility in many work it will keep you busy and divert the attention.
@jhl930 (3607)
• United States
26 Feb 08
Well there isn't alot that you can do if you really do love someone else and you aren't married to that person you just have to get a divorce or something like that if you don't want to be with the person that you are married to at the time..but just be careful because once you hurt someone that bad you may not be able to go back if things dont work out
@NeoComp (1321)
• United States
25 Feb 08
It's hard to forget the love of your life, or someone special. I think you should take a vacation to forget.