is looks maters in love...

India
February 27, 2008 10:45pm CST
jst wanna knw do u guys feel that the person u love is not that beautyful...BUT I LOVE HER ..its jst a thought anyof u guys feel da same ....
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11 responses
@lilaclady (28270)
• Australia
28 Feb 08
Outside beauty may attract quick but inner beauty keeps longer, meaning yes beauty may attract more but even someone who is not considered a beauty seems to become more attractive after awhile if they have an inner beauty. besides what is beautiful to one person is not to another, i was always told I went for not so attractive people, I was always attracted to personality rather than looks...by the way welcome to Mylot.
• India
28 Feb 08
thanks lilaclady....thats thing comes to ur mind whn ur alone .......
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@lilaclady (28270)
• Australia
28 Feb 08
Everyone has some beauty and as they say beauty is in the eyes of the beholder, you are still young and lots of living to do, love yourself first and think positive and someone will come your way...
2 Mar 08
Honestly, I don't fall in love with anyone who is urgly. I don't want to hang out with some really urgly guy ,which will make me feel bad. My Mr.right should tall,handsom and gentle. If I can't find Mr. Right, I can wait.
• India
6 Mar 08
hey bobenanse, ur the only one whos replyin honestly .. thanks for ur honest reply ..take care bye
@jhl930 (3607)
• United States
28 Feb 08
I think that looks will attract you at first to the person but I think that if you really love someone you don't only love them for their looks you love them for who they are and what they stand for...I don't think that I could ever look at my girlfriend or wife and think that she is ugly...so no i dont think that everyone things like that...
• India
29 Feb 08
thanks all of u ...for ur comments its realy make differnce .......thats was a thought which came to ma mind .......thanku all who replied ....
• China
6 Mar 08
I think ture love will egnor this . a person who love you very much and take good care of you when you got ill and give you a very happy life . will you live her just because she is not beautiful. like the mom. And I also think that you will find her very beautiful as long as you stay with her long .That's my experience .
@dierdre (2213)
• Philippines
4 Mar 08
well my brother's gf of 4 yrs aint hot,she's not even cute, that's why my dad would REALLY LOVE IT if they broke up or something coz my dad is a judgemental person most especially with other people's looks but he always tells me that that is his opinion and he doesent really meddle with my bro's choice of gf coz he says that at the end of the day, hes the one who's gonna wake up with her every morning anyway. LOL but seriously, some people would really wonder how someone so gorgeous ends up with someone who's a 4 below on the looks-ratings criteria,but i guess you cant really choose who you will love in the first place and when cupid does hit you, that person becomes the most gorgeous guy/girl in the planet in your eyes. ive experienced that before, i used to like someone whom almost all my friends thought was not cute.but i really, really, find that person good-looking. although when i first saw that person, i didnt find that person goodlooking at 1st glance.
@jc00771 (155)
• China
2 Mar 08
yeah i agree as you know love is not a beauty competition and when you fall in love with someone her apperance is only part of her charm. her temperament,gentleness and other aspects may give you deeper impression than her beauty. sometimes i just think that your girl friend or wife beautiful or not according to the common comment is not so important to your own feeling.Although sometimes you may think about how others think and feel your current lover is not so beautiful,which may degrade other's opinion on thinking if you are charming enough person, you know people may conclude someone's ablility by how beautiful his girl friend is, hehe anyway,your lover is yours, as long as you think she's beautiful, she is beautiful, not to care about other's idea as the girl friend is not theirs:)
@mnvamsi (539)
• India
29 Feb 08
My answer would be yes.. Beauty is nothing before heart.. I saw many beautiful girls but only few touched my heart.. And i saw many girls of other type and most of them touched my heart.. So its not beauty its the heart that matters.. I don know what u think about this but this is just my view.. That's all..
@clinsbull (194)
• China
28 Feb 08
we hope all of the people really find true love.i am just kinda hunging low,or maybe i dont even know,i crave to be loved ,but i know how the game goes and it always seems like the same things over and over.man love woman, if u love her ,u must make her happy.
@sumi123 (129)
• India
28 Feb 08
Hi nirvana, Yes looks matters but to a little extend only. I give 25 out of 100 for looks and 75 for the character. Coz at times looks will create superior or interior complez and develop as problem in future so to be at safe than regret later.
@julyteen (13265)
• Davao, Philippines
28 Feb 08
I don't know why but it always happen that "LOVE IS BLIND"..beauty doesn't matter if you really love a person..the most important is the attitude because it will not change...face can be turn to plastic surgery but attitude will not...LOL.
@heart143 (1204)
• Philippines
28 Feb 08
i would say yes...because it is the face or the appearance of the person you see first.Then as you go along, you would come to know the person better...then you can decide if the relationship is worth keeping or not. Beauty does not only pertains to physical beauty but also the attitude and the personality of a person. It is the beauty inside that makes a woman...more beautiful. Beauty is in the eyes of a beholder.