My boyfriend and I have this local spot we go to whenever......................

United States
February 28, 2008 2:38pm CST
we want to hear some music and have a couple of drinks. There was this bartender who was into him and she had no problem showing it. One evening, we were like maybe the third couple to arrive. Now women, you know we know when another female is feeling our man right, well I knew and I saw it. When she was taking our order right, she was only looking at him as if I wasn't there. She left and I said to him, "you know you were flirting with your eyes right!" and he said that he wasn't (he has gorgeous eyes that look even better at night and he is very easy on the eyes). I said to him that she likes him but for some reason when we tell a man that another woman like them, they act dumb-founded and say no she doesn't and I had to explain to him that it is easier for me to see. We ended up leaving and somewhere else because she never came back with the drinks. O.k., another night we go to the same spot, and once again she is there. She takes our orders this time and return with the drinks. However, a little while later, I notice her trying to make eye contact with him and she would have a smirk on her face. Of course this made me freaken mad because she kept doing it. I expressed how I felt to him and he made it seem as if I were making something out of nothing but something like that you can't take lightly because some women are devious. I got upset and left. Now let me just say this: I have never acted like this over a man before so it was totally out of character for me. When he came out to the car he was upset and said "why did you do that? That is when you should have let her know that I was your man,now you have to be punished!" Well, we left the joint and went to get something to eat. We arrived at my house and made ourselves comfortable. I barely took two bites of my food when he asks are you ready for your punishment? and I said what!? He took the food from me and started to punish me and let me tell you, it was the best punishment I ever recieved. He was making love to me as if to say, baby I love you and only you. It was, oh my goodness!, it was so good that night and I said to him, "I need to leave out like that more often." LOL!
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@paulsy (1264)
• Philippines
28 Feb 08
Aww that was really sweet! He does love you very much. Sometimes devious women can really drive you nuts! I do encounter the same experience every now and then when my fiance and I go out. But I never put it on him, though. He's an American, I'm a Filipina, and we're here in the Philippines. So the tendency is for people to look at him, and it's really not his fault. But when I see that a woman is insistently eyeing my man, and obviously trying to attract his attention, I would make a sarcastic remark out loud, like, "would you like to take a picture?", or "would you like an autograph?". That would embarass the woman and well, it drives her away... hahaha!
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• United States
28 Feb 08
LOL! I have often used that phrase: "would you like a picture?" towards people who stare at me. I see I'm not the only who uses it : )
• United States
5 Mar 08
This sounds like out of True Romance but it has the ring of the truth..I think we all want what other people would see as deireable..well, you know that he is your man but he is glad you are jealous..as this makes life more interesting..it is nice to be with someone who is admired..but you had me worried about punnishment as I have to admit I have never been punished in this way or have I done so but look what I have been missing..thankx for the good post..you both are lucky
@rvp2503 (26)
• United States
4 Mar 08
thats awesome lol-i think i act like that too sometimes but only if my boyfriend doesnt really give a response or doesnt acknowledge that im upset which makes me more upset. but thats so cute! it shows that he cares a lot : )
@goldwin65 (937)
• Malaysia
29 Feb 08
Wow...what a romantic couple. It sound he really love you and only you can win his heart. You're lucky to have him. Don't you think so?I like the part where you were being punished by him. Must be the best punishment ever. Good luck to both of you.
• United States
28 Feb 08
sounds like you have a good man, and he really loves you. make sure that you don't get too proprietarial or you may lose him. you know him better than i, so you will be able to judge. HAVE FUN!!!