I have been going to these meeting every Sunday~~~

@marciascott (25557)
United States
March 2, 2008 3:26pm CST
The problem is I don't like one of the Ladies there, would you still go, knowing you don't like the person? I can't stand her, But I like some of the other people. Would you keep going or find some other meeting to go to, just because of the one person? I was just wondering what everyone is would do? I am a freindly person, I get along with everyone.
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11 responses
• United States
2 Mar 08
I'd act like she doesnt exist at all. Dont let her ruin your meeting. You get everything you can out of it. Just hang around the other ladies thats all you can do, But I would not quit going over one person.
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@marciascott (25557)
• United States
2 Mar 08
I try to be a nice person, I don't like being anywhere where I am not comfortable.
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@JoyfulOne (6243)
• United States
2 Mar 08
I've belonged to groups and committies like that where there's one person who just grates your nerves (for whatever reason.) I usually keep going and try not to let them bother me. I try and be friendly no matter how they are because sometimes just being friendly will eventually lead them to be friendly too. If it was me, I wouldn't change groups because of one person, I think it's pretty much true that there's always one of those people in every meeting place you attend. Just keep being the good person that you are and try not to let them ruin the day, or the group.
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@marciascott (25557)
• United States
2 Mar 08
Thanks Joy, I will do just like you said, I thought about it, and it would be silly to stop going.
@terri0824 (4975)
• United States
4 Mar 08
I wouldn't let one person keep you from going to a meeting. There are others there that you like, so why ruin it for yourself their company, just because of one person. Who knows maybe you will see this other person in a different light and like this person.
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@stephcjh (32385)
• United States
4 Mar 08
As for me Marcie, I would probably still go unless this person caused problems for me at the meeting. If she didn't cause hardship beteeen us, then I would see no problem as long as she kept to herself, especially if I anjoyed the company of the other people there.
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@jillhill (37354)
• United States
2 Mar 08
I think any place you go there might be one person that you might not like. If you enjoy the meetings then I wouldn't let one person spoil my fun. Just ignore the fact that she is there and have a good time!
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@raydene (9875)
• United States
2 Mar 08
Doll, I would try to figure out why I don't like her..I would then try to see good things about her. If all fails I would sit as far away from her as I could and enjoy everyone else. xoxoxoxo
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@musicman6 (2368)
• United States
2 Mar 08
I have to do this a lot, and I would still go, in spite of not liking one person! I would do it for the sake of the people I do like! But when I do this, I would be on my guard, and be careful not to overstep any boundaries, that would insinuate any aggression! But would be ready to defend myself!
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@Shawchert (1040)
• United States
2 Mar 08
I would go still but ignore the woman, and if she tries being rude or mean to me, I would tell her to leave me alone. I'm not sure what those meetings are but if she doesn't stop talk to someone in charge.
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@sunkissed (4332)
• United States
11 Mar 08
Hi Marcie, It all depends on how large this meeting is and how uncomfortbale you are feeling because of this woman. I would not want to go anywhere that i do not feel comfortable. Now I do know that we will neverr get along with everyone. But there are some people we should not be around. Only you will know this.
• Australia
9 Mar 08
Why let one person spoil your fun? Obviously we can't like everyone, but if we can bite our toungues and be curtious, then there should be no reason for you to stop going to your meetings.
@Rozie37 (15505)
• Turkmenistan
3 Mar 08
I would not let one person stop me from doing what I needed to do. Just over look her and get what you need. Don't let anyone cause you to lose a blessing.