a mind blowing question?

United States
March 4, 2008 6:10pm CST
would you believe a person who you've never seen, but are in a relationship with, whether from online or long distance through a friend, that they wouldn't care how you looked when they see you? or are they afraid of how u might think of them. please respond. i dont believe it. maybe you can love someone you've never seen. WHAT DO YALL THINK?
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10 responses
• United States
8 Mar 08
I fell in love with a man 7 months before I met him. We chatted online and I fell in love with him within a week of just online chatting. I'd seen his photo, but not seen him in person. We talked everyday online and almost everyday on the phone. When we met it was like sparks immediately. That was over 4 years ago. We're getting married in 2 months.
@nanayangel (7691)
• Philippines
5 Mar 08
Hi there! I don't think that would be possible for me, personally because first, I am not into romantic online relationships. I used to do it before but I never took it seriously. I only take guys seriously when I met them personally and courted me formally.
• India
5 Mar 08
How can u say that the person is a stranger. Cause by any way we are communicating. Are you aware that even silents also do a lot. Then some conversation, even if it is through online, unseen will do some relationship. http://free-articles.blogspot.com
@kreinao (56)
• Philippines
5 Mar 08
i do believe in it. i experienced it personally, it was like a spur of the moment thing. but later on, reality checks in and all the truth would come rushing in. but hey, everybody dreams of a good relationship, sometimes it can be found online. only sometimes they are based on lies. and i really really hurts.
@rsa101 (13337)
• Philippines
5 Mar 08
Well some people do fall in love before the see each other. Just by posting or constant communication they are able to feel loved and everything. As for me since I am a visual person I do get attracted to a person if I could see touch and feel a person. having a long distance and there is not physical contact meaning you could not see each other and experience each other means nothing to me.
@jc00771 (155)
• China
5 Mar 08
i think it's possible. however it is a defferent kind of love in compairision with the common love-i mean the formal face-to-face love in reality. when you are living in your imagination you may think the one in distance and you never seen is loveable,but when all of these come true-you meet each other, maybe it is very hard for you to ignore his aperance.
@goldeneagle (6776)
• United States
5 Mar 08
I think it is highly possible for someone to think this way. The main thing is that you are honest with each other. Don't pretend to be something your are not. I think that if you are in the relationship long enough, and both people are genuine, it is possible for it not to matter what the other person looks like...
@Grace35 (136)
• United States
5 Mar 08
I think that if I was in that type of situation, I would like to think that neither would matter, but in reality, I think that it's not possible. Whether people like to admit or not, "Looks get you in the door, but your personality keeps you" If the roles were reversed, I'm not sure of the outcome..
• Australia
5 Mar 08
Personally for myself, I wouldnt want to be in a relationship with someone that I havent even met yet. Online relationship can turns out to be a fake one, though not all of it. However, I do have friends that have never met before, became a couple by letters, and they do love each other deeply. After several years, when the opportunity rises for them to meet, turns out that because of their deep love, they dont really care much about appearance of the other person. They are currently married and living happily (has been for about 9 years or so)... So I guess its all depends on the person in the relationship... it can happen and it did happen for my friend, but for myself, I wouldnt want or allow my self to be in such position :)
@Elfwand (36)
• Philippines
5 Mar 08
I think that's very possible. Simply because I'm in that kind of relationship. We've never met yet, but I love him and I dont know how. I don't care why, I just do. ^^