I just wish someone could hold me
By missbdoll
@missbdoll (1165)
Australia
March 6, 2008 6:03am CST
Thank you to all my MyLot freinds. As a lot of you know I've had a really bad time for the last couple of weeks, not to mention the loss of my partner last September.I think all the time about what he would have wnted. I cann't imagine never having a meal with anyone again,never having anyone to talk things over with, the consant strugle with no one for support emoinaly
I cann't even imagine what it would be like to get dressed up and have somewhere to go, I donn't mean something over the top, just to be able to go out and have a meal with someone.
But I guess I cann't really think about that,I've got to fight the next thing that will hit, I'm just hoping thers no more and I could at least feel safe.
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10 responses
@bagumbayan (2705)
• Philippines
7 Mar 08
Sorry, I am not aware of that loss. Have your partner just disappear or just go beyond. Sorry to hear that. It realy is so sad when your love one has gone. But for sure you will be able to find someone who will replace him. How about a friend, a sister, a relative whom you can call now. Maybe they are just around to keep you company. In due time you will be able to find your new love.
@barbiegirl13 (1588)
• United States
6 Mar 08
I am so sorry that you hurt. I too feel your pain I am pregnant and on my own. I can't go out anymore and sit at home a lone all of the time. I like to get on the phone and talk to friends this helps to ease the loneliness but is not a cure. You can always get on My lot and talk to others. Keep your head up, this is only a temporary thing for you. You will soon have someone to hold you. Just take one day at a time.
@musicman6 (2406)
• United States
7 Mar 08
That's right missbdoll, hang in there, determination means never quitting, we know you can do it, you just have to show us you can do it! And we know you can!
@plainhousewife (332)
• Philippines
6 Mar 08
I'm sorry for your loss of a loved one. I think it would help to turn to your closest friends to lift up your spirits. Maybe a simple getaway to some place you haven't been to will also do the trick, at least to take your mind off your loneliness.
You hang in there, okay? :)
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
6 Mar 08
Oh missbdoll, hang in there it does get easier although there is always a bit of pain, I wish I could help you, even though I know how hard it is always remember the cherished times you had, I am sure your partner is still close to you, watching you and maybe even trying to guide you...they do that I am sure...
@killahclaire (3665)
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6 Mar 08
First off I am only 24 and have never been through this myself so I totally accept if you don't appreciate what I say.
I can't imagine how hard it must be losing someone that close to you. He must have been your everything and I can see how every day is a struggle and you are always faced with lonliness. My thoughts are with you.
Have you maybe thought of joining a group for people in similar circumstances and finding yourself a companion. Someone who is a similar situation as you and that you can share your time with and go for dinner with in a companion way. Dating is far from your mind but maybe just having somewhere to go with someone who cares might be what you need. I know of alot of older people whos partners have passed away that do this sort of thing and it just makes life less daunting.
@littleone3 (2063)
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6 Mar 08
I know how you feel as i lost my husband five years ago it does get easier but the loneliness is hard but i had many good friends and also my children to concentrate on. I did started dating again eventually and now i have been with my current partner 3 years in April we have a son together and i couldnt be happier but take your time dont rush into anything. You need to stay strong and you will get through this although it may not seem like it at the moment.
