letting go of someone?

@skbh12 (2950)
Philippines
March 8, 2008 7:30am CST
how were you able to convince yourself to let go of someone? once i was deeply in-love with a man for 4 years because i thought no other man could ever have an attitude just like what he have. i have been so deeply in-love with him that even if we tend to have petty quarrels that isnt really my fault at all, yet i would end up saying sorry to him just so we can continue what we were having for each other. then one day, i realized that everything that has been happening between us has to stop for i dont see any progress to it. so what i did was stopped any connections with him and started dating other guys whom i know also deserves to be loved by me.. yes at first, i was just forcing myself to forget all about im when in reality i couldnt but as i have learned to opened my doors which i have given to my present boyfriend right now.. letting go of someone is hard but if you know it is the right thing to do, just do it. how hard was your letting go process?
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4 responses
• China
26 Mar 08
Hello ! Probably you are right.but not for me.I know what i am saying.Sure ,human being need love ,it is what purpose us to live ,to work ,to study,and so on.But it not all the world.I can live without love as usually.I will not regret my dicision,not today and not future.Yes! Love is not eaquls the world!!
@skbh12 (2950)
• Philippines
26 Mar 08
uhuh.. we are born to show love for each and everyone of us.. well you have a point though.. you only love to those whom you know who are deserving to receive it.
• China
23 Mar 08
Lover,it not a good appoint. I also have ever love a girl,years ago.We are all to little ,so at last i say nothing to her.when the point i passing by her,i know i have lost her. just because i can not tell her my love. it's short. during a longtime ,my heart painl. now ,when i thoughtit again,i feel nothing.no sensecus.love is nothing!
@skbh12 (2950)
• Philippines
24 Mar 08
dont say that.. love is nothing when you dont give it a try.. someday, you'll be able to see what love really is.. maybe you just didnt have the courage to tell her what you felt towards her. but sooner or later, you'll be appreciating what love really is..
9 Mar 08
letting go to someone is not at all easy. but most of the times we have to let go the pplz we love most!! this is what life is alll about!! living in present moment and lettting go the loved ones is also the part of life.
@skbh12 (2950)
• Philippines
10 Mar 08
yes letting go is really hard but if you must do it for the good of the two of you then you must accept the fact that you have to set the person free..
@kreinao (56)
• Philippines
8 Mar 08
I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years now, he is my first and I guess my last. We also had our fair share of petty quarrels. But we worked things out and we are still working things out. We have or I have tried to break up with him, but it was really hard. Just thinking of a life without him, ouch, it really hurt me a lot. Nowadays we are just being patient and accepting. Loving is good, Letting go really hurts.
@skbh12 (2950)
• Philippines
10 Mar 08
never give up showing love to your boyfriend.. break up isnt always the solution to some problems because it doesnt really help but merely make things worse.. right?? continue what you both have for each other and strive hard to make it grow.. patience is a must and trusting each other is one important that you two must have to achieve a healthy relationship...