Not In The Mood

United States
March 9, 2008 11:03pm CST
So what do you do when you're in the mood but you're partner isn't? Do you worry about it or do you just not let it bother you?
5 responses
@Polly1 (12650)
• United States
10 Mar 08
I never worried about it. Your post does remind me of a funny story. I had a plan, so I waited until a night when I knew my hubby wasn't in the "mood". I acted like I was. He turned me down, which I wanted him to, he didn't know it though. The next day I had a surprise for him. I made him a special sandwich. 2 pieces of bread with a note inside. The note said "you didn't give me any meat last night, your not getting any today". He said when he picked it up it felt kind of funny, then he bit into it and found the paper. He loved it, he said he laughed so hard. He saved the note. I did make him a "real" sandwich for lunch.
• United States
10 Mar 08
That's really funny. You could always TRY to get your partner in the mood -- that can always be fun! If they're really tired or REALLY just not in the mood and don't want to be coaxed, however, I don't worry about it. It happens. People are not always turned on or in the mood 100% of the time. That's just life and there is nothing that will change it.
• United States
14 Mar 08
It's really inconvenient. I only get to see him on the weekends courtesy of us living two hours apart (courtesy of him moving for his job and me having to stay grounded here for school... egh.) I don't really worry about it, but it is annoying.
@Ravenladyj (22940)
• United States
11 Mar 08
LOL if I'm in the mood and neither of them are....well thats never happened but if it were to, I'd just take care of it my damn self LOL
@Taskr36 (13925)
• United States
11 Mar 08
It bugs me, but there's really nothing I can do about it. I'm pretty much always in the mood so I never turn down my wife when she wants it.
• Philippines
10 Mar 08
I do try to be honest. However, men can be pushy so I just say Im not feeling well. Pollys incident was really good. Perhaps turning to humor to ease tension or frustration is a good idea.