office crush

Philippines
March 9, 2008 11:32pm CST
My friend has been married for three years and have two kids. I have talked to her last night and she told me about her dilemma. Her husband is planning to go abroad in a few month's now. She was working as a manager in her father's company and unfortunately, she started to develop a feeling on one of her employees who became close to her from the day she started working there. She know she should not give any meaning to it- maybe the man is just giving him friendship and everybody from the office knows that she is married. She told me that she thinks about the man all the time and he is even in her dreams. She was afraid that when her husband finally leaves, She won't be able to control herself. What can I tell my friend to stop what she feels? =(
2 responses
@skinnychick (6937)
• United States
13 Mar 08
You can really say anything to stop what she is feeling. She has to do that on her own. She has to make her own choices in her marriage. I would tell her to find out if this other man has any feelings for her. If not then she should let it go and that is a harmless crush which will go away. If they both have feelings then there might be a problem and she should do some soul searching about her marriage and her happiness in it!
• Philippines
13 Mar 08
I definitely agree with you skinnychick and you response is in great timing. We will have a catch over a coffee tomorrow night, i got to collate all the thoughts here and raise it up to her. I'll give her a little spanking. Kidding! LOL
• United States
16 Mar 08
Hope you guys get it worked out! Let us know what happens!
@subha12 (18463)
• India
10 Mar 08
i think this is a situation many people have encountered in life. inspite of being married, few people have this feelings. may be for any reason she got attached to him. Now if she really wants to continue with her husband, she must control herself. she must engage in other activities which makes her attention diverted.
• Philippines
10 Mar 08
i definitely got to tell her about your response... thanks a bunch =)