What causes a majority of arguments/fights with your spouse?

@dizzblnd (3073)
United States
March 11, 2008 8:46am CST
Does it seem you are constantly fighting with your spouse? hat are the arguments usually about? I find that most of our fights (which aren't very often) are about stupid stuff which isn't even the main thing. Usually our fights come out of frustration of something completely different. Then it just takes something silly to set it off. D you fight about the things that are REALLY bothering you or do you cover up whats bothering you with stupid stuff?
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@mrpippo (756)
• United States
11 Mar 08
i'm not married anymore (lol) but most of the time we fought over stupid things like what we would watch on TV ,or what to have for dinner or where to go for dinner or which car were we going to use ,just stupid things like that ,but making up for these trivial arguments was well worth the arguing we did :)
@dizzblnd (3073)
• United States
11 Mar 08
ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh make up s3x is the BEST isn't it?? Thanks for responding and for the giggle
• United States
11 Mar 08
The last fight I had with my sweetie was about myLot. Which it wasn't about myLot at all. But thanks to myLot and some of the great people I have met here we were able to work out the real issues and now we shouldn't have another fight until what kind of wedding cake we want.
@dizzblnd (3073)
• United States
11 Mar 08
It is amazing how something as little as a computer can set a man off. I think it is jealousy.. when I was on mylot last night, he said "i think i will get a will get a keyboard tatooed to my pelvis" I said "really?? you'd do that for me?" He gave me "the look" I knew it was time to come off of my 2 hour marathon and spend time with him. It does seem the internet is a cause of some fights.. but nothing a little "attention" can't fix :) I am glad your friends that live inside your computer can help you.. thats what we are here for ;) Thanks for responding
@rockvixen (896)
• United States
11 Mar 08
It's the same here. He and I fight over silly stupid things. Sometimes if he has a bad day, for some reason he just gets upset and then we argue over it, then later at night we talk calmly and realize that what we were upset about was no big deal. Sometimes we do have those major arguments about the car or bills, but the major ones don't happen often. It's the silly ones that do.
@dizzblnd (3073)
• United States
11 Mar 08
It is never good to go to bed angry. it leads to bad dreams, and a horrible next day if it is not resolved. It is nice to hear that things are easilt misunderstood, but as easily fixed with little or no hurt feelings Thanks for responding ;)
• United States
11 Mar 08
I can't remember the last time I fought with my hubby. Its been a very long time! I'm sure the last time we argued or whatever was over something small. We talk everything out and never go to bed angry. We'll be married 11 years in May.
@dizzblnd (3073)
• United States
11 Mar 08
My hubby and I will be married 17 years in May :) We rarely fight either. When we do it is about something stupid. He won't let me stay mad. He'll tickle me, joke with me. He will apologize when he is wrong. Thanks for responding.
@Courtom (288)
• Canada
11 Mar 08
and ya, sometimes I feel he purposely pisses me off, to get me mad, and fight, then talk, and then.. "MAKE-UP" ;)
@mrpippo (756)
• United States
11 Mar 08
glad to hear i put a smile on your face