i am crying so hard

you have a great love. he will be back and i feel for you and your loss. i worked away from home 3 years ago and i missed my wife and baby girl dreadfully. do not upset yourself. you have a true love that will cross the divide. i hope you feel better later. think how wonderful it will be when he returns!

Why don't you occupy your time planning a nice welcome home. That way you are not thinking of him as gone. You are concentrating on his return. Smile it will ne alright.Just make a countdown calander. That way you have something to look forward to.

do not be too sad my dear. i know separation although not too long time always hurt anyone. just be tough. don't ever your emotion makes you being irational. there are lots of thing that you able to do while your husband in france. he is doing something there is for your happiness in next on. he finding more money for your future and your children's future. so lets stand up lady. make your husband proud of you. he needs your support while he is there. so, please eat well, study well and doing anything well as like usual. i know it would be blue feeling when night comes, but just don't give up. cheeeer up!!!

Why did your hubby leave for France? Is it for his job? How long will he be away? Maybe you can keep him touch via emails & phone calls. It is hard being away from a loved one, but the saying "absence makes the heart grow stronger" can be true.

Hello dear andrejuly. You will be alright when you are used to his working in a foreign country. He is doing this for a better life of the family to make more money. Please cheer up and I am sure that everything will be alright soon. It is very nataual that you will feel desperate when thinking of his working abroad. Time heals. I hope that your husband will be lucky enough to make as much as he wishes. Good luck and take care.

I am sorry to hear that you both have to be apart right now. I hope it isn't for too long.

I'm sorry to hear that, but just keep reminding yourself he will be back I'm sure of it.. I am thinking he left for a work related thing.. You know though sometimes couples need this a time alone thing.. But like another lady had said you need to get your things to gather and I agree with her 100%.. It's not like he's leaving for ever right... Be strong and try and be happy I am sure he will call you and see how your doing... Take care!

don't cry...NEVER ....for a man......... I'm devorced.......... I think that all men have the same carachter........... dont worry you could find another boy better than first So I think that are best a dog........... sure Bye Myryam

i can undersand your situation. but don't be so sad. i think the grief will go and again you will find it ok when he comes back. hope he will keep contact via phone to you.

hi andrejuly. this is late but i hope you are feeling better right now. sometimes we can't just make things happen our way because it needs to happen and it needs to be done. maybe you're thinking that you don't need the money but your husband thinks otherwise. he has to work for both of you. and he probably wants to give you a better life that's why he went away to earn more money. i hope you are not that lonely anymore and that you have found something to divert your attention to so you don't have to think of your husband 24/7 because that will only make you sadder than you already are. just think of the day when your husband will finally be back with you and how happy that moment will be. don't think of the long days of waiting. time passes by so quickly that you wouldn't notice it. cheer up.

I feel for you dear friend.. I know how it feels to be away from our loved one, i've been there and there was nothing that i could do to stop him from going away because he said that it's for the best (for the future) but sad to say it didn't work for us. I hope things will be better for both of you.I'm not saying that long distance relationships don't work because i know some who have been strong and realized that it's true love for them. I could see how much you love him but this job made you both away from each other. All i can say is cry it all out, let all the pain out... Call a trusted friend whom you could cry on and Pray a lot. Trust HIM, for he is there for both of you. I know it's easier said than done but you have to be strong for him (your man)...I'm not a pro and i've been broken too, i guess everyone of us have our own time with broken hearts thing. But it's life and we learn something each time we stand up after we fall.It's the only way to live, to love, sacrifice and be hurt but what's important is that we LOVE... Take care always dear ( i wish i could hug you now)

You need to get yourself together hon or you're going to make yourself sick and I'm sure you don't want to do that nor does your husband. I know it's hard, trust me, I KNOW it's hard because when my husband was in the US Army, he had to go overseas two times for a year each time. Talking about hard! That was awful but we made it and came out smelling like a rose. You will too so get yourself together and remember, you will be back together in due time. Ok?

it was a great love you had but sometimes love should be tested in order to prove your love with each other. maybe its the test. just be strong