regrets every day???
March 15, 2008 3:58pm CST
hello ! As the topic indicates regrets!! We all have regrets every day,every night and some of us every moment about life,family,ourselves,study,home,work etc. After every one day, i have thousands of regrets about myself like "i wish i had done the work before","i wish "i had studies for the test so i cud have scored well, "i wish i wud have said sorry to my friend and now hez not here","i wish i would have taken care of my mother so she could fell ill", Every other moment i have thousands of regrets and then i decide not to repeat those things,but we are humans and in the end again a new regret:) so what regrets you people have? and anyone regret which u wish u could go back and change it ? Waiting for the interesting replies :)
15 Mar 08
I have many regrets but they are hardly personal, UBiquitous! The one personal I remember, and perhaps the greatest one, is my failing to top in my 10th grade exams, that I had so wished to do. But, now I consider it a blessing in disguise as it made me a more comprehensive and versatile person and my later successes are very much due to my failure earlier. I believe in effort and when one has put one's effort, one should leave the results to GOD, whatever the results may be! And, whatever happens after that, I don't regret and I do think it as something better even if that is apparently not! My regrets are mainly for not being able to solve peoples' problems in my country and around the globe. There are much more people than I can think of who don't have food for days or at least not more than single time a day. People, who don't have shelter, clean water, education and basic needs! I wish, I had enough resources to take care of all of them!
15 Mar 08
very well said ! The same thing today i commented in a discussion dont remeber that there are thousands of people who dunt have to eat and wear properly and we people always go for brands and expensive things without thinking that rather havin them why not helping a poor? It wont effect us that much but will be very beneficial for those needy people :) really they suffer a lot .But still they are more happy than us .atleast they dont have regrets every day like us :-s
15 Mar 08
hm regrets is part of human emotional. its really humanly. without any regret we would always think that what have we done always 100 percent correctly. my regret when i was unable to take care my grandma in her illness till passed away due to my study in university. i really love her but at those moment the condition not allowed me to come to her side
17 Mar 08
hm yeah, thats i am doing at now. at this moment i already married and try to love and care my husband as best and as much i can. life is so short whether we doing something remember rather than let everything just going in front of our selves nice to be in your discussion my dear friend
18 Mar 08
Yes you should take care of your husband as much as you can :) . Life is really very short to live happily with our loved ones,and before we loose them we should take care of them and make them happy. You seem to be a very good wife :) may Allah bless you and your family with health,wealth and peace. Thanks for responding in,wil be waiting to hear more from you. Take care.[:)]