Are you prepared to be married?

Philippines
March 17, 2008 10:05am CST
Me and my boyfriend are together for 3 years already but we really don't have plans yet to be settled. We are quite young and he has to finish his studies, me, on the other hand has to build my own career before settling down. Are you ready to commit and receive the vow of marriage? How prepared are you?
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7 responses
• Philippines
17 Mar 08
I think that I am not yet ready to tie the knot. I just finished my degree, and I have not established a life for myself. My boyfriend and I do not discuss this matter seriously because we both know that we have to work on our lives first, like our careers.
• Philippines
17 Mar 08
yeah me too.. i just graduated a year ago and i've had to find a stable career, my boyfriend needs to go back to school and finish college maybe after 4 years. Still have a very long way to wait..
@newht351 (74)
• Malaysia
28 Apr 08
i'm in relationship for 6 years.. fro 18 to now, 24years old.. quite long. at first, i wish i could married him as fast as possible. so i can see him everyday.. but when i started work, i found outits quite tiriing to handle marriage and carreer.. no, i want to enkoy my life and money first.. buy what i want, traveliing.. soo, when both of us is ready for comitment, we going to married. we've plan to give us time around 2-3years more..
@SomeCowgirl (32270)
• United States
28 Apr 08
I am very much ready to marry him. I love him with all of my heart, and do believe that I am prepared to commit to him as he is to me.
@busta1baby (1238)
• United States
28 Apr 08
yes i am
@alexigne (903)
• Philippines
28 Mar 08
no, i am not prepared yet for this kind of commitment.. I am already married with my exhusband and bless with my daughter... I've got pregnant unexpectedly and my family force us to be married... when i got a chance i push my ex husband away and then be single again... My daughter is with me and i can proudly say that i am happy and satisfied with my situation... I am not prepared because, there still things that i want to achieve , not alone but with my family, i don't want to live with other house and leave my mother and brother and sister... When i am thinking to have my own family... raising my child just with my husband, doing all house chores... I feel that it is really hard...
• United States
17 Mar 08
I certainly hope I'm prepared since I'm getting married in 2 months.
@teison2 (5924)
• Norway
17 Mar 08
No. I do not think I will ever get married. If I am to get married it will be for economic reasons alone. To me it is just as good to live together. I have lived with my man since 2000, and I think we are doing just fine without a marriage certificate