If your husband wanted you to get a boob job would you?

United States
March 17, 2008 4:39pm CST
I'm seriously considering.... They're fine in a bra but kinda droopy with out. I'm happy with the size so I guess it's more of a lift than an augmentation. So if your husband/boyfriend wanted you to enhance a part of your body would you?
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@Chey1970 (1193)
• United States
17 Mar 08
No, I wouldn't do it. If my husband wanted a woman with bigger boobs than what I have, he shouldn't have married me in the first place. That goes for the fact of any other kind of enhancement too. Just my opinion. He gets what he got!
• United States
17 Mar 08
lol chey good point!
@sedel1027 (17854)
• United States
17 Mar 08
If he asked, I would not because those surgeries have to be redone every so many years. I know he doesn't want me to get fake boobs at all. However, if we could get that awesome boob job where they use stem cells and butt fat to grow real boobs, both of us would be all for it.
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• United States
17 Mar 08
The boob job of the future! Sounds like a good one. Is that actually available?
@sedel1027 (17854)
• United States
17 Mar 08
From what I understand it does. The procedure was started in Japan and now is being done in Europe.
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• United States
17 Mar 08
hmmmm maybe I should go to Japan!
@Galena (9123)
18 Mar 08
nope. if I wanted a boob job and could afford it, then I would consider it. but I'd never have any kind of surgery just to please someone else. it's MY body. if I'm unhappy with it, I'd consider changing it. but if a partner wanted me to change it and I wasn't bothered by it, I'd show them the door.
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@bonbon664 (3470)
• Canada
18 Mar 08
Here, here!!
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• United States
19 Mar 08
lol easier said than done with five kids in the equation!
• United States
17 Mar 08
No, I wouldnt. I actually want a reduction and he doesnt want me to do it.. I think I'm going to go ahead and do it anyways, its my body, its for my own comfort. Kind of the opposite of what you are saying but it goes along the same thought.
• United States
17 Mar 08
Nosy question, how big are you now?
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• United States
18 Mar 08
38DD at my current weight, almost down to a 38D, when I've lost my extra pounds I'll still be at a D, 36D. They dont go down!
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• United States
18 Mar 08
How do you feel about it? I think it's strange that you want to spend all that money, time, and effort to get it done or lifted, but I wouldn't. If you don't feel comfortable with your body, I think you have to deal with those issues rather than fix it with money. I wouldn't ever do it myself, but it's your choice. Your choice! Not your husband/boyfriend's.
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@teison2 (5924)
• Norway
18 Mar 08
No I do not think I would. I have never considered changing my body like that. It is far from perfect, but ut is me. This is how I am. It does not appeal to me to have anything done to my body. I do not think my man would ever say he wanted me to have something done either. I think he is fine with my bode no matter what it looks like.
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@ycanteye (770)
• United States
18 Mar 08
10yrs ago I would have answered this differently than now. I was married to a man for 35yrs who was never happy with my body no matter what I done and I was always trying to please him. Well, now I am married to a man who accepts me as I am. I would pick a thing about him that you wish were different and ask him to enhance and see what his reaction is, I'll be he don't like the tables being turned one bit.
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• United States
18 Mar 08
No, especially when it comes to surgery, it's my body and I decide what gets done to it. If YOU want it and he agrees, that's great! Let him go with you to a qualified plastic surgeon and sit in on the discussion have the surgeon explain the surgical procedure and the risks and benefits. After the meeting is a good time to make a decision, whether you want to go though with it or not, and hubby will have the facts.
• United States
18 Mar 08
HECK NO!!! I want to be sure I'm attractive to him as God made me. And I don't believe it's the body that makes you attractive to someone. It's how you act. Been married 27 years March 31st, and we still love each other in spite of the way our bodies have changed. And besides, I really believe it's safer to use your imagination instead of a knife.
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• United States
18 Mar 08
I would not for him. he does not care anyway. I would for myself though I have always wanted to not too much just a little extra something.
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@Ravenladyj (22937)
• United States
18 Mar 08
HELL NO! I got a boob job but I did it for ME...and thats the ONLY reason it should be done as far as I'm concerned...If my husband were to approach me with a request like that I'd slap him right in the mouth! Cause my attitude is this, if you dont like me the way I am..you have no business being wiht me..
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@bonbon664 (3470)
• Canada
18 Mar 08
No way. You said you're happy with the size. I wouldn't go through serious,risky cosmetic surgery for anyone but myself.
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@LouRhi (1502)
• Australia
18 Mar 08
Even if my husband wanted me to, I don't think I could get a boob job. Don't get me wrong I could definitely do with one as I am rather small, but I just don't believe in the concept. I have always been a big preacher of being happy with what you have been given.
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@chiyosan (30206)
• Philippines
18 Mar 08
no. it will be who will suffer from it in the long run after all. so it will have to be my choice not his.
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17 Mar 08
I dont think I would do anything my partner wanted if I didnt feel comfortable with it. Ive wanted a boob job for quite a while now, and when I told my bf I was so scared he would go mad, but he said yeah go for it, your boobs are too small anyway lol So yeah he would love me to have bigger boobs which suits me as I want to. I also want a nose job which he doesnt think I should get, but I want this more than the boobs. End of day if you are happy with the way you look you shouldnt change for anyone.
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@nicholejade (2430)
• Canada
17 Mar 08
I'm somewhat in the same boat you are. I am unhappy with mine I want fuller and more bouncy I guess you would call it. My fiance did not suggest it though. He says he likes them just the way they are. But for me it would make me happier. I have talked to many women who have gotten them alot of them being happy since they have got them and a select few that are very unhappy with them as they were botched in the process. I would have to consider flying to the states as those were the only surgeons that have got the good results of their clients. Something I'm doing all my research on before jumping into it.
@twoey68 (13651)
• United States
31 May 08
He would be getting the boob job...I'm already sporting 48DD's and if that isn't enough for him...oh, well. **AT PEACE WITHIN** ~~STAND STRONG IN YOUR BELIEFS~~
@sharone74 (4839)
• United States
23 Mar 08
Since I have the exact same problem and I would like one myself, yes I would get a boob job if my hubby or boyfriend would pay for it. Just wanting isn't enough they gotta make it happen!
@jairgirl (2877)
• United States
20 Mar 08
definitely NOT! gladly my husband is not the kind of man who makes this stuff the majority of the relationship. i hate the feeling of anything unreal in me, i guess that's the reason why i dont wear make up and just be myself all the time. i have nothing against with anybody who wants to do it (health and or insecurities purposes) i said that coz most people who wants to make their boobs big is because they are insecure of others and they are not really happy with themselves. sad but true but i wish it dont work this way. no i am not judging who do this kind of stuff, its just that who are being interviewed why they dis such tthing roots from insecurities and or they want to be noticed more so i said what i said. takecare
@AnnikaM (25)
• United States
20 Mar 08
Well I've considered it already, so if he wanted to pay for it, sure! Why not! I wouldn't do a Pamela Anderson though. I'd just go up one size to mainly add back firmness lost after having kids.