the HISTORY button!!

United States
March 20, 2008 12:38pm CST
ok i am very curious to know what my husband gets on when im not here. well he knows how to work the HISTORY button. he know how to delete the websites he's been on to keep from me seeing them. well i tried doin the restricted site thing.. well its a pain in the butt cause when i get on here i half to type in a password or something and when he finds out that ive done it he gets pissed or watches me type the password in. is there any other way you can view the site besides the history button? ive even tried hiding the history button and he finds it.lol. please give me some tips!
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@kezabelle (2985)
20 Mar 08
You could add a keylogger? they can be found for free on the internet simply load it in "invisible" and he wont know unless he thinks you might have put one on and goes looking for, that it is even there. They record every single stroke of the keyboard including passwords website addresses etc you simply open word document type in the password (never something that might be typed into a word document) and it all comes up. While I would never advise snooping on a loved one having had a partner who deleted the history etc he was actually found to be cheating on me when I installed this. I just think if someone has nothing to hide there is no need to delete the history, you could always check the cookies bring them all up and paste into a web broswer the part of the code which will make sense (ie words not just numbers) and it will bring up the site it is related to.
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@ESKARENA1 (18299)
20 Mar 08
all these things are of course possible but the very fact such a question is being asked suggests a lack of trust between the two of you
@kezabelle (2985)
20 Mar 08
I couldnt agree more, and I would always ask first face to face but I got the impression he was avoiding her knowing anyway so a face to face confrontation seemed a bit fruitless to me. It also doesnt have to spell the end either me and my partner are still together and happy knowing all the facts made me make my choices on forgiving and forgetting and moving on. Not knowing will in the end distroy the relationship I mean he obviously wouldnt admit what he has been on if he would then why delete history, finding out and knowing all the facts can help to sort things and move on either together or apart, this is just my experience though and I know many wont agree I know many didnt when I took him back its hard to comment really without all the facts and trust me theres plenty of facts id leave out about when this happened to me.
@alexdra77 (147)
21 Mar 08
I was told curiosity kills the cat. Lack of trust can cause problems, he knows you are watching him, he will try to be one step ahead of you. Why don't you just ask, if you are that worried?? yeah i know he probably won't tell you the truth.
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• United States
20 Mar 08
Other mylotters have already given you the suggestions that I would. However, it would bother me if my husband did not want me to see what websites he was visiting. I would wonder why he felt the need to keep secrets from me. I know that my husband often checks the history after I have used the computer and I just chuckle to myself because I know that I am only doing boring stuff and am not looking at things I wouldn't look at if he was sitting right next to me. I figure if it makes him feel better to check up on me; let him do it. I must say that when I first discovered he was it was a bit insulting. I just worked on changing how I viewed it and now it isn't a problem for me. Have a great day!
@ESKARENA1 (18299)
20 Mar 08
A great way of finding out what sites he has been visiting is to ask him, if your relationship is ok he will tell you, if it isnt then its a good way of highlighting problems in your marriage or relationship blessed be
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@whywiki (6070)
• Canada
20 Mar 08
I have to ask...what is it you two are hiding from each other? Shouldn't a marriage be based on trust?
• United States
21 Mar 08
to the last question from whywiki. well i have nothing to hide at all ..all my stuff"everything" is out on the table for him to see. i have nothing to hide and i dont think its right for him to hide anything from me.
@vibbsdod (24)
• India
21 Mar 08
hey try out a software called forti-client which save the link of all the website visited and later on you can check them out keeping a user name and password separately and even there is the option to block the sites from that software
• United States
21 Mar 08
Hahahaha I have caught two guys cheating by doing this so i know it works. go on the internet and search for a free keylogger. KGB is one I have used before with no problems. You can set it up then have it running secretly, for free, for about a week...and if he was going to do something untrusting more then likely it will happen within a week. It will show you anything and everything he has typed on the keyboard. It will also show the websites he has visited and take screen shots. Including most passwords. Now really I would only do this if you suspected something, hopefully you will have no need to worry in the end. Good luck