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Just follow your heart, my dear.

If you are not ready hun, then do not do it. From what I see from what you have put you do not want to. If you end up doing anything just to please your boyfriend you will regret it and you will end up resenting your boyfriend. You will know in your heart when you are ready, and if your boyfriend does not respect this and wait until you are ready then he is not worth it. It sounds like he is only thinking of himself, he is not taking your feelings into consideration at all. If a man truly loves you, then he would understand that you are not ready and would be willing to wait no matter how long it took.

I would break it off with him if he cannot understand and accept that you do not want to do it. I would not do it until you are good and ready to do it yourself. Never give yourself to someone if you are not ready to.

This relationship is to young for anything to be sure. Dont do anything that you dont want to do. Let him know that you will not do it. If he presists then leave him, because it shows his lack of respect for your feelings. Furthermore where's his assurance that he wont just leave after getting what he wants. There's just to much of a risk for you my dear.

if yer not ready.. yer not ready. period. if he loves you, he will understand that. if he doesnt, you dont even wanna be with him, much less sleep wih him.

You need to do what you feel. I know I'm a guy, what do I know, but I've been seriously dating my girlfriend for almost 2 1/2 years now...yes YEARS, and we still haven't done it. We agreed. It is something to talk about. It's not something rush into. Sure there are times when I really really want to but if he lives you he will understand and the same thing goes the other way. I also do think that its very early and waiting would be a good idea. But it comes down to how you feel. Don't make yourself uncomfortable.

Don't give in just to keep him by your side, if you do not want to, he should not force you to do it and if he is the right person, he will never force you to do somethign which you do nto want to. There are better people out there and so just ditch him and wait for the right one to show up sweetie , I am sure things will happen for you too.

You should be true to yourself. Your boyfriend needs to respect your wishes. If he won't respect your needs about this, he'll never do it about anything! Don't let him pressure you into doing anything that you don't want to do.

I think he just can't force you in this matter. If you are not comfortable, its ok. why is he forcing you? May be guys think this way. Talk with him clearly and see what is his notion.

Well just say ur heart, say that you are still not ready, and if he really cares he shud wait till ur ready, but if he cant, then you shud be firm on your decision, of breaking up with him. Im ean y shud you do the sacrifice, ask him to wait, if not just get ur self out of this.

get rid of him, he's not worth of your time.. it doesn't matter if he's your first boyfriend or what. You deserve someone better girl!

just tell him that you do not want to do that at the moment, if he respect you he may stop. if not, you would consider if he is the right one for you. i guess the right bf can understand and respect his gf.

he is just a good pretender... every cheater and playboy use those words... don't but still the final decision is yours

it'll be better if you guys would wait. explain to him how you feel about it. if he really loves you, then he would understand why you're being hesitant about what he's asking from you.

No offense meant..but 5 days is not a relationship...and if he is pressuring you now and you are resisting, what does that tell you? You should follow your "knowing"...that little bit intuition we all have...you don't feel comfortable complying with his requests so don't comply...be true to yourself...there will be many boyfriends and some will be like this one , but some will be kind and understanding and most of all RESPECTFUL of your feelings..this is the most important!!! He is trying to get what HE wants..not what is best for YOU!! Best of luck...

Go with Your feelings...If He won't accept that You're not ready for this yet,and keeps pressuring you,It looks like He's only wanting that one thing...

well i dnt really know why u dnt want to do it cos u did not metionm it on ur post....well it is all meant for u but since u knw he love u and u love him too u need to do it..well it is all meant for u maybe u have a reason y u dnt want to do which u let him knw maybe he will understand instead of leaving him lonely akon....lol.they say feeling is somthing close to the heart wen you hide it u trying killing the heart....maybe u shld tell me more

i myself a male here. and ab't your query dear if you don't wanna to have that just deny him and even if you think to end up with the relation then go with that too. ok don't worry, make sure to yourself that you must do what's your intution says.... trust me there are many to help you out, even me there. trust me you are the best decision maker for yourself. your unknown friend kANWARJI

This one is easy. Do not go for what he wants. He's just testing if you will give in. If you do, it's your loss. You are right for wanting to break up with him. Do that instead. Do not be fooled. He does not love you.

Dont think about what he has to say , just take your time and when you'll feel ready just tell him so and if he doesent want to wait ...well tell him goodbye