Have anybody ever asked you for best response?

@youless (112103)
Guangzhou, China
March 23, 2008 8:30pm CST
Everybody looks forward to getting best response in Mylot. I am lucky that until now nobody asks me about it. I think I have to be fair in this aspect. This is why I don't often decide which is the best so early.
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@teison2 (5921)
• Norway
24 Mar 08
No noone ever asked for it. i like to wait awhile too. In the beginning i was to quick. It is better to wait awhile and let more people have a chance to reply first
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@youless (112103)
• Guangzhou, China
24 Mar 08
You are right. Just be patient to mark the best response a little later will be fair. At least it'll give enough people chance to reply to it.
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@chrissieatu (1033)
• China
24 Mar 08
Ah~~nope. I am still quite new and haven't start many discussion. Worse still, I have been too busy to visit mylot lately. At this point, I quite agree with you. It is better for me to be fair. I do not easily pick up a best response. So far, one of the myloters had been so kind to me that she picked mine to be the best response. I am quite happy with that. By the way, a best response means what? Thank you for your answer in advance:)
@youless (112103)
• Guangzhou, China
25 Mar 08
That's so nice for you to have a best response. In means that you response is the best according to all of the responses. You will earn extra money from it.
• China
25 Mar 08
Oh I see~May you have more best response then:)
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
24 Mar 08
No, not really! No one ever wrote to me in her/his post or otherwise, stating that his/her response should be rated as the Best Response. On the other hand, whenver I decide any response to be rated as the Best Response, the respondent says to me that there were other very good responses, so other responses should have been rated as the Best Response (any one of them).
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
24 Mar 08
I agree with you.
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@youless (112103)
• Guangzhou, China
24 Mar 08
But there can be only one best response, although sometimes I also think there are a few good responses, too.
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@tess1960 (2385)
• United States
24 Mar 08
I used to mark best response quickly but now I wait sometimes months. Some discussions do not get many responses right away and then a while later they get a lot of responses. Sometimes I will spend an entire afternoon just looking at old discussions and marking best responses.
@youless (112103)
• Guangzhou, China
25 Mar 08
It seems it's a really long time to decide the best response for months. You are so responsible to it.
@kamran12 (5526)
• Pakistan
24 Mar 08
Hello youless!:-) I don't remember anybody asking me for the best response, I don't think anybody actually asked. Someone once said that they were expecting best response but immediately said that it was a joke. So, No, no body has ever asked! You are so right, youless, one should be fair in giving best response as much as possible. I try my best to follow this policy. Of course, there could be error of judgment, we are humans! We should try our best though!:-)
@youless (112103)
• Guangzhou, China
24 Mar 08
I am glad that you try the best to follow the judging policy
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@kamran12 (5526)
• Pakistan
24 Mar 08
I do, youless! I may get a job as judge when I'll be older, who knows!?
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@williamjisir (22819)
• China
24 Mar 08
Hello dear youless. I am glad that you are lucky that no one has ever asked you for a best response till you have waited some time to see which one is more competitive. It is the same with me. It is always better for me to be patient to wait and read a best response before it is given. Keep up your nice work, dear youless.
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@youless (112103)
• Guangzhou, China
24 Mar 08
Your posts have increased so fast
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• China
24 Mar 08
Hello dear youless. It is because I was having a rest during the four days, not today when I am starting to work again. My posts can increase fast only on my days off, not on my days on. I am sure that I will be as slow as a snail again in the next ten days. I am glad to see you always marching forward with a big step. Keep up, youless.
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@wolfie34 (26771)
• United Kingdom
24 Mar 08
No one has ever asked for a best response, I don't think anyone is cheeky enough to ask, I mean that is a bit rude isn't it? I think that is up to the person who has started the discussion and not be asked for it. I am always fair with my best responses and they DON'T automatically go to friends, I have been known to award best response to a newbie before!
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@youless (112103)
• Guangzhou, China
25 Mar 08
That's nice for you to do so. As long as you decide it fairly, it shall please for all people
@TerryZ (22076)
• United States
24 Mar 08
Ive never had some ask for the best response.LOL Your right it would be unfair to others. I dont decide early either.
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@youless (112103)
• Guangzhou, China
25 Mar 08
Thanks for your response.
@Modestah (11179)
• United States
24 Mar 08
I have as of yet never had anyone request a best response from me. I too find it most difficult to choose a best response and I am afraid I am not very good at it. I am very far behind but am trying to mark several a week - I figure if I can mark as many as the number of discussions I have started that week plus a few extra I will eventually catch up.
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@youless (112103)
• Guangzhou, China
24 Mar 08
I know you will do a good job here
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@lilybug (21107)
• United States
24 Mar 08
I have not had anybody ever ask me for best response to a discussion before. If someone were to ask me for best response I would make sure that person did not get it on that particular discussion just because they were rude enough to ask for it.
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@youless (112103)
• Guangzhou, China
25 Mar 08
I think so.
@lynnchua (3412)
• Singapore
24 Mar 08
Nobody asked me about it too. I don't think mylotter will ask directly for a best response right?
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@youless (112103)
• Guangzhou, China
25 Mar 08
You are right.
@marketing07 (6266)
• South Korea
24 Mar 08
no one ask me for the best response or i will ask for best respone for me i gave my best response for those i think deserve to have a good response.
@youless (112103)
• Guangzhou, China
24 Mar 08
Very good
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• Nigeria
24 Mar 08
No body has realy ask me for best response, But i think is good we give the best we can. Becouse is what you have that you can give.
@youless (112103)
• Guangzhou, China
25 Mar 08
Thanks for your reply.
@Jody20 (887)
• Netherlands
24 Mar 08
Nobody ever asked me for a best respond and i don't think i could choose one. If i had to choose one i would take me a while. I never got a best respond but i'm just getting started so maybe i'll get one in the future, and if i don't it won't matter because i will keep on responding to the discussion i like.
@youless (112103)
• Guangzhou, China
24 Mar 08
Yeah, as long as you are active here, I am sure you will get a best response. I still remember how excited I was when I got my first best response as a new member here.
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@hmike_d (1529)
• Philippines
24 Mar 08
Yeah, you really have to even think twice before you arrive into your discretion of choosing that one the best response. And of course, an ample time for you to decide as there are some response that comes quite late but are the best.
@youless (112103)
• Guangzhou, China
24 Mar 08
Thinking twice is a responsible behavior to make the best response
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@maddysmommy (16230)
• United States
24 Mar 08
Nope haven't had anyone ask me yet youless. There's always a first for everything though LOL
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@youless (112103)
• Guangzhou, China
24 Mar 08
Thanks for your reply.
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@drannhh (15219)
• United States
24 Mar 08
Not yet, but strange things do happen. I take a long time deciding, too, but will get to it eventually. Usually, though, my best response goes to one of the earlier responses, even if a magnificent one is given later. Several times I have had people say that they thought someone else should have gotten best response, as they thought the other person's remarks were better. Oh, well, we cannot please everyone.
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@youless (112103)
• Guangzhou, China
24 Mar 08
Everybody's judgment is different.
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@moneyandgc (3428)
• United States
24 Mar 08
No, I have never asked anyone for a best response nor have I ever been asked for one. If I was I think I would be less likely to give it to them. I hope I nevre run into this problem. I don't know what I would say to them. I wait to award my best response as well. There have been a couple of times that I really wish I could give it to more than one person.
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@youless (112103)
• Guangzhou, China
24 Mar 08
I have the same feeling, too. But there can be only one best response.
@arjun999 (1004)
• India
24 Mar 08
No one asked me for it. But i guess it is always better to wait for a while before giving best response to anybody.
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@youless (112103)
• Guangzhou, China
24 Mar 08
I agree with you.
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@puretor (155)
• China
24 Mar 08
No, i have't received any request from others who ask me about the best response.But i have done some best response to others who respond to me . But now ,i don't do that ,cause i think that it is unfair to others who respond to my discussion .And i will rate the + to every response:)
@youless (112103)
• Guangzhou, China
24 Mar 08
I think it's still suitable to mark the best response.
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