cheating

United States
August 17, 2006 9:15am CST
if a man cheats on his wife should the wife cheat on him
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• United States
25 Aug 06
Will that solve their relationship problem? Probably not.
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• India
5 Oct 06
i agree 2 wrongs can never make a right
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• United States
16 Oct 06
I also agree with that comment, that just makes you look bad as well.
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• India
16 Oct 06
no
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• United States
30 Aug 06
No. Two wrongs don't make a right. The cheated spouse should take comfort in knowing that karma will prevail. I am a man who was engaged to a woman who cheated on me and I remained faithful until she told me that she was leaving me to marry the man she was cheating on me with. I remember telling her to remember "What goes around, comes around". I got a letter from her a year later saying that I was right. She married the man and got caught up in an abusive relationship. Not to mention, she found out that he was sleeping with a woman that he worked with. She said that she would give ANYTHING if I would come back to her. I never went back but I met someone else and got married this year on March 9th. I am happier than I can ever imagine. Just trust in Karma, it works.
@VidBal (27)
• India
5 Jan 07
Incidents like this only reinforce faith in Karma. It's usually said in our part of the world that you'll be made to suffer for your wrong doings in your next birth. But we witness many cases where the wrong doer is suitably rewarded in a very short time, that too in full knowledge of the person to whom he's done wrong.
@jep_toyo (1607)
• Philippines
8 Jan 07
True, just leave it to karma. good for you, you found your true happiness.
• India
31 Aug 06
It happens only if no mutual understandings. Marriage is a 100 years crop, there may be some ups and downs in life, so husband and wife are responsible to those,atleast one can adjust the other, if there is no mututal understanding then problems may occur, if man cheats woman then why don't she cheat the man, cheating makes radiculus, there is no meaning of married life, but it is not suitable to indian culture, i don't know about foreign culture..
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• United States
19 Oct 06
No she shouldnt cheat on him that wouldnt solve anything.
@masoud02 (176)
• Oman
17 Dec 06
Let God judge the cheater and sinner,but do not become cheater and sinner yourself.Everyone is accountable before God for his actions."A blind leading another blind will all fall in the ditch"
@Alexis (220)
• Portugal
30 Aug 06
Two wrongs don't make a right.
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@jain82 (631)
• India
21 Nov 06
i do agree dis
@abccba (1916)
• Denmark
30 Aug 06
if you do that youre realationship will just end, so why not just end it anyway!
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@maview (17)
• India
19 Nov 06
i agree!!!
• Italy
30 Aug 06
No, she should just leave him. There's no love anymore, so why bother cheating. Leave him and find another man.
@mistypq (673)
21 Nov 06
Just kick a**? unload the two timmer.
• United States
30 Nov 06
No, 2 wrongs dont make it right and I would not lower myself to his standards.
@krysy1982 (1042)
• United States
20 Nov 06
if it comes to that point you should just end the marriage
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@Aali311 (6127)
• United States
20 Nov 06
NO that will make her as low as he his, she should just leave him and start a new life.
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• United States
20 Nov 06
no two wrong don't make a right
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@meetsammy (579)
• India
20 Nov 06
y is cheating associated with men only...if u see todays time then even the woman cheat on their man...i think that is much more these days...
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@tareqfayyad (1675)
• United States
20 Nov 06
i think the relationship between husband and wife not measured like this if my husband do that i will do that..i think that both of husband and wife should have red line if anyone exceed it....everyone go on his way and finished the realtion between them.....bye
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• United States
20 Nov 06
My cat's - Only if we all could be so faithful!
No, because she would just end up hurting herself more and give the spouse more fuel to justify what he is doing!
• India
24 Oct 06
no
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@msqtech (15226)
• United States
24 Oct 06
no she should not two wrongs dont make anything better
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@magikrose (5424)
• United States
23 Oct 06
Normally I believe what is good for the goose is good for the gander but when it comes to cheating, I dont think it is ok for anyone no matter what the situation is. If your hubby cheated NO it is not ok for you to do it to get back at him and make things even that is childish. There are better ways of handling it than that. try counseling
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@DELICIA (137)
• Saint Vincent And The Grenadines
23 Oct 06
no , not necessary , i think wife should kick him out of the house , or devorce him but cheating on him i think it is about self respect , u should not sleep with another man just becouse ur husbant was cheating on u
@kuest1986 (484)
• India
23 Oct 06
if a man cheats on his wife should the wife cheat on him? this is a very good question!i think that the wife should not cheat him!the reson is that then what will be the difference between the two.wife must talk to him...or should go to the police
• India
14 Sep 06
If man cheats a women,I would say that man is not the right person for her. Better leave him. Women should not cheat him. If she cheats then what is the difference between him and her. While tieingup with someone besure that he/she is faithful to u.
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@250890 (3)
• Vietnam
31 Aug 06
I don't know.We must know which way the husband cheated his wife: +If the problem is not so big,for examble he used the family-fund to do something,when he said with her he had lost it,etc...In this situation she shoud (again) with the man create another fund,and try to keep the right to keep it,... +If he made a very terrible mistake with her,for examble he tries to feed another girl outside,or he sold the house without her permission,...that means he no longer loves her(because when we love,we always try to give the happiness to the orther),she should say with him that she wants to divorce. However this is just the way if the wife is so angry.When she still loves him as they has just got married,she will forgive him,sooner or later...
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