what do u think about this? ladies i need your help.

Well I cant say whether it is all men as I dont know all the men in the world lol, but the majority of men I have met and especially ones I have dated are extremly attentive for about a week! then they show there true colours, wont listen to a word especially if the football is on or it is something that doesnt involve sport or a bit of nooky as a subject then they arent interested!

It is a man thing but I really do believe it can be fixed. Men in general aren't good listeners so you have to learn how to talk to them (not just at them). First, don't bother if they are doing anything else, they can't focus on you and the tv at the same time and the tv will always win...same for computers, guy magazines and video games. Second, keep it short and to the point. They don't like trying to follow long drawn out discussions with lots of back story. Their attention span isn't long and you'll lose them after a few minutes. And third, don't expect much. Even under the best circumstances men aren't great at conversation. Keep your expectations low so you won't be disappointed.

No its not all men mine listens to me mostly only if he is really really busy does he not listen properly.

Not all men are like that. If he's so unwilling to listen to what you have to say, then he obviously does not value you. I know that you're probably deeply tied to him emotionally, but you can end up getting seriously hurt if he doesn't cherish you. There are better options out there, but if you don't try to find something better, you won't.