what do u think about this? ladies i need your help.

United States
March 24, 2008 3:00pm CST
well me and my boyfriend knew eachother when we were 15 and we had a little boyfriend girlfriend thing. well anyways he moved away and we broke up. so i went by his house one day years later and he was having a party. well we hooked back up and we live together now. so its getting to that point where he doesnt even listen to me anymore. have you all done that ? been through that? ill be talking and he will say uh huh when im through and ill say were u listening to me? and hell say yes.. ill say what did i say then? and hell say welll a little of this and something about that.. hes so screwed.. is that just men or is it just mine?
4 responses
24 Mar 08
Well I cant say whether it is all men as I dont know all the men in the world lol, but the majority of men I have met and especially ones I have dated are extremly attentive for about a week! then they show there true colours, wont listen to a word especially if the football is on or it is something that doesnt involve sport or a bit of nooky as a subject then they arent interested!
@foxyfire33 (10009)
• United States
24 Mar 08
It is a man thing but I really do believe it can be fixed. Men in general aren't good listeners so you have to learn how to talk to them (not just at them). First, don't bother if they are doing anything else, they can't focus on you and the tv at the same time and the tv will always win...same for computers, guy magazines and video games. Second, keep it short and to the point. They don't like trying to follow long drawn out discussions with lots of back story. Their attention span isn't long and you'll lose them after a few minutes. And third, don't expect much. Even under the best circumstances men aren't great at conversation. Keep your expectations low so you won't be disappointed.
@kezabelle (2985)
24 Mar 08
No its not all men mine listens to me mostly only if he is really really busy does he not listen properly.
@rpegan (598)
• United States
24 Mar 08
Not all men are like that. If he's so unwilling to listen to what you have to say, then he obviously does not value you. I know that you're probably deeply tied to him emotionally, but you can end up getting seriously hurt if he doesn't cherish you. There are better options out there, but if you don't try to find something better, you won't.