fight between your friends

India
March 26, 2008 1:45am CST
what will you do if your two friends become enemy and both of them are so important to you.on whose side will you be?
3 responses
@skbh12 (2950)
• Philippines
26 Mar 08
if two of my friends who are really close to my heart are on a fight, number one rule for me is never to take any sides between them because it could worsen the fight more. since they are important to me, the nicest thing to do is to have them talk infront of each other and give each one a chance to share their side of stories. say things that would break their hearts if they continue fighting.. maybe reverse psychology would have an effect to them right? friends are the ones who fixes things up for the better and not for the worse. friends who fight should talk things over to make positive outcomes.
@heart143 (1204)
• Philippines
26 Mar 08
I think the best stand is to be neutral. Both of them are your friends and both mean a lot to you. If you take one side, you are being unfair to the other. Try to become the bridge to them so that they'll soon reconcile. Listen to both sides and explain to the them what really happened. Be the mediator and try to bring back the friendship the three of you used to have.
• Malaysia
26 Mar 08
I will not take any sides because the other will be upset if I did not take his side. I will try and calm them down so that they will be friends again. If things really get out of hand, I will stand aside and watch; let them settle it themselves.